As said, the goal might be desirable and not scary in and of itself - but why scare someone into desiring it?i don't know about that. i think it's an interpretation and tactic used by some people, but the bible? yeah the fear of god is in there, but so is the overriding point that the goal is communion. there's nothing scary about communion in my opinion, but i think that if someone would not desire communion, according to the bible, they should be scared.
Just look at the passage containing the 10 Commandments as given in Exodus...
Note the following:
"for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me"
"for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name"
"Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning.”"
Yep - plenty of "fear of God" stuff, as you accept... so rather than God trying to extol the positives of his message, he basically threatens people - makes them fear him.
To me this seems rather contrary to and inconsistent with the message he seems to want to give. "Be good to each other... or I will not be good to you," sort of thing. Surely God would impart such message by means that are consistent with that message.
Instead, what to me seems more probable, is that certain people wanted to be able to control others... and the easiest way is through fear. Get the masses to fear God - and then claim to speak for God and the masses will fear you.
This is in no way suggesting the correctness or otherwise of the ultimate message, nor of the existence or otherwise of God, but just that the methodologies in the Bible seem inconsistent with the message it tries to give.