the trick here is that God is different for us all, and yes thats where the confrontation is.
Trick? What trick? I thought we were talking about the Christian god, and he comes straight from the Bible. And if you talk to any bible reading/preaching practitioner, he/she will tell you that I'll be spending the rest of my after life in hell because I didn't accept Jesus as my lord and savior, no matter how "good" I've been. As far as I'm aware, there are no ifs, ands or buts about that.