Argument with a buddy

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greenboy

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I have an argument with one of my buddies about bisexuality, I think all men have homosexual thoughts once in a while, and they can appreciate the beauty of another man. My point is all guys are virtually bisexual, my buddy insist this is not true and he insist he never had a homosexual thought, which I think he is just lying and he is not secure of his sexuality. My choice for sex is a girl but a guy wont turn me off. I wonder how many guys out there agreed with me. I know Raymond is lying... What do you think?:D
 
My point is all guys are virtually bisexual
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Then you don't understand much about what bisexual is about.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical or romantic attraction to both males and females. It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. ...
 
My uncle was a paedophile and tried for years to turn me gay. I'm glad to say this never happened, and never will. If anything, it just reinforced my liking for women. I find no men in the least bit sexually attractive, and although I respect gay rights, there is not a man on earth that could sway me over to the other side. You are wrong in this one.
 
I bet you see an attractive guy somewhere and you think is attractive. I think you didnt understand my point...
 
I took Human Sexuality in college and was taught that there is basically a sexuality scale and we all fall on it somewhere (except for those that aren't attracted to humans (whole other discussion!)). We are all bi to some extent; I think your friend just falls to the farthest of the hetero side. Still, anyone can appreciate beauty without wanting to f**k it. :shrug:
 
greenboy said:
I bet you see an attractive guy somewhere and you think is attractive. I think you didnt understand my point...
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You can't just apply your own mixed-up feelings to everybody else, not everyone feels the way you do. I am very secure in my sexual orientation and I can assure you that to me men are sexually repulsive as do millions of other men. I agree with your friend.
 
I think that everyone can find the same sex attractive. It can be in a sexual way or It can also be a envious thing like wow he/she is pretty or handsome I want to look like them or just appreciating that they are good looking
 
Thanks for answering, yes I think even when you do not agree there is certain bi feeling in every man, and I agreed I may think a guys is handsome and perfect without wanted to f**** him, I think people thinking about having sex with every human being is wrong, I can enjoy the beauty of a man without wanted to take him to the sac. in my gym I got a buddy he has a perfect body and he is very handsome, I appreciate his physique without having sex with him. I think I made my point clear what do your think?
 
I think you are now denying what you originally posted.

You said: I think all men have homosexual thoughts once in a while

You came to that conclusion since you obviously do and so it appears to be your thoughts about men go way more than "I think he's very handsome".
 
There is such a thing as bi-curious, but I've always thought that was a bit of a cop-out.
 
I am another guy who has never had a sexual thought about men. I am 100% heterosexual.

From my reading, it appears that sexual orientation falls into a continuum. At one end, there are the people who are 100% homosexual. They have not the slightest interest in the opposite gender. Then there are bisexuals, and those who mostly like the opposite sex but occasionally think that someone of the same sex might be OK.

And the majority of us, male or female, are 100% or close to 100% heterosexual. Like Ultra, I am totally unable to have a sexual thought about another man.
 
Skeptical said:
I am another guy who has never had a sexual thought about men. I am 100% heterosexual.

From my reading, it appears that sexual orientation falls into a continuum. At one end, there are the people who are 100% homosexual. They have not the slightest interest in the opposite gender. Then there are bisexuals, and those who mostly like the opposite sex but occasionally think that someone of the same sex might be OK.

And the majority of us, male or female, are 100% or close to 100% heterosexual. Like Ultra, I am totally unable to have a sexual thought about another man.
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And I am yet another. Never had that feeling and NEVER will !!!

I'm by no means a gay-basher but I have my suspicions about the OP. It seems that he leans toward being a homosexual but has guilty feelings about it. Therefore, he makes his idiotic claims about ALL males in a vain attempt to justify what he actually considers to be an abnormal interest. Lots of luck with that attempt - he's TOTALLY struck out !!
 
Men don't have tits. At least, not good ones that I would want to lick. Does that answer your question?
 
Well I am not denning anything, I think we all have these thoughts once in a while....:)

adoucette said:
I think you are now denying what you originally posted.

You said: I think all men have homosexual thoughts once in a while

You came to that conclusion since you obviously do and so it appears to be your thoughts about men go way more than "I think he's very handsome".
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greenboy said:
Well I am not denning anything, I think we all have these thoughts once in a while....:)
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Then you are TOTALLY wrong. As several people, myself included, have pointed out to you. Such thoughts have NEVER crossed my mind in 76 years of living.

You also need to learn one simple fact - no matter what YOU think - trying to claim something applies to ALL is a very foolish action.:shrug:
 
Heteros don't have these thoughts. I am also a tit man and I am a discerning one at that. They can't be an A-cup which dismisses a quarter of the women out there... they need to be TITS.

As I said, you're on your own with this thread...
 
greenboy said:
I bet you see an attractive guy somewhere and you think is attractive. I think you didnt understand my point...
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That's a statement of aesthetics, not sexual attraction.

Of course men, of any proclivity, can identify "attractive" in another human being. I'm gay and can certainly appreciate an attractive woman, it just doesn't give me a woody or excite thoughts of a sexual nature.

What's at issue is your assertion that sexuality is fluid in men, not their ability to spot a person with features that we are biologically programmed to desire (in ourselves and/or others).

~String
 
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