Regarding the idea that the theists' supposed connection with God somehow obligates nonbelievers to give the theists and their behavior unconditional respect, I think that the suggestion is more than a little bizarre.
Yet it can readily be witnessed from theists. The crusaders, for example, expected precisely that, on a massive scale. I know many Christians who expect nothing less than my unconditional respect for and submission to them on account that they are Christians. And if you go to the Bible Belt ... heaven help you ...
I have opinions abut them too, sometimes favorable, sometimes not. But I feel absolutely no obligation to recognize and respect any special status that certain religious believers might try to claim in secular society.
I suppose it must be great to have such a degree of self-determination.