cosmictraveler said:
What I can't understand is that why don't gay people just live together and make up a will so that anything they want can go to the other person if they should die.
They do, and believe it or not judges don't always pay attention to wills. There have been instances before where, despite having named their partner as the executor of their estate in their will, everything still ends up going to next of kin, IE the family which disowned them years ago.
Also, estate matters are not the only legal matter effected by a legal marriage contract.
cosmictraveler said:
What is the real point of gays getting married after all unless the agenda is to adopt a young child?
Hmm, an agenda to adopt a young child, you say? How hideously and unforgivably evil! Aside from the fact that your reasoning is entirely flawed (though really only because you haven't got your facts, straight, but that's forgivable, most people become complete idiots when it comes to legal matters that they've never looked into. . . if you don't believe me go start a thread about intellectual property laws), because there are very many other reasons to want the legal protections which marriage provides. Aside from that, you're ignoring the fact that same-sex partners already
are adopting children, this isn't prohibited in very many places in the United States. So we've already got our hands on the children the breeders throw away! Oh no! Why is that such a bad thing?
cosmictraveler said:
Marriage is only good for the children that are concieved during the marriage so that they can have proper papers telling them and others who they are and who brought them into this world. It is also to show possesion of material things so if a divorce happens the property will be divided up.
I'm not sure where you're living, but in the United States the legal reality of the situation is quite a bit different. If you are in the US then I really don't know where you're getting this stuff about the kids from. I assure you a birth certificate will be issued regardless of whether a couple is married or not. Other than that, yes there are quite a lot of joint property rights, as you've stated, as well as tax considerations, and a load of secondary considerations including quite a few dealing with healthcare and also immigration.
cosmictraveler said:
So what's the big deal about just living together wherever the gay couple want to and just not tell anyone for what right is of it of others who is living with whom?
Eer that's a sort of roundabout way of saying I'm not entirely sure what.