He gave us free choice. Most of us abused it/messed up. Most children have parents who messed up first. Most of those people probably should not have even had children. I think if you can't afford them, don't have them and expect society/government to take care of/raise them.
Being a born-again Christian isn't a cult. It's a priviledge and an honor.
Your apologetic excuse addresses nothing of the thousands of children born throughout the world the don't get your god's word nor his love. Surely you aren't suggesting that these children aren't at fault simply because they had the misfortune to be born of parents who didn't get the word. Most of their parents in Muslim countries have no problem "affording" their kids, so I don't see what you're getting at there.
And choosing to be among the membership of "born again Christians" is most definitely a cult membership. The "privilege and honor" existing only in the minds of those who belong to it.