We've had a rash of threads about sexual positions and such. I know what I like to do. Now I'm interested in a slightly broader poll. What is it that matters to you when it comes to girlfriends/boyfriends/wives/husbands, et cetera? If you choose, Other, please explain.
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What matters?
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Monogamy - I am not about to spend a long, serious relationship with a girl who wants to fool around
Honesty - This and trust go hand in hand, in my opinion. I don't like people in general unless they are honest.
Fun - Definetly the most important. What the hell is the point of a long relationship without fun?
Honesty - This and trust go hand in hand, in my opinion. I don't like people in general unless they are honest.
Fun - Definetly the most important. What the hell is the point of a long relationship without fun?
I'm not going to vote in the poll, because as usual they are too limited in scope for the topic.
Monogamy is important, as the first thing. It is a waste to spend any amount of time with someone who is not on the same level as you. If they are not serious, you are wasting your time and sooner or later it is going to hurt. If you have children, between the two of you, how important is it to you to know that your heir is really just that. The product of the pair of you and not someone elses. That is truely theft of the heart and the wallet when it occurs.
Level headedness is a quality you don't appreciate till it is not there. Not just lack of flightyness but stability of emotions. I won't spend my time on this earth with someone who only knows how to raise hell and enjoys it.
Fun? There is nothing wrong with fun; it adds spice to our daily lives. Only, our daily lives are made up of the every day ordinary stuff. I crack a joke and enjoy a good joke or humour where it is found. (Though that isn't all that makes up fun) The reality is when you wake up and look over at your pardner in life, who is just waking up also and realise this is a beautiful lady. (Before the daily morning rituals) When it might be real nice to go make coffee and bring a cup before waking him/her up as a nice suprise. Or waking through the yard, you think of that one who is special and pick a flower to bring in unannounced just because. That is reality, that is the everyday that each of us live within. That is what you have to deal with on a daily basis. Fun comes and goes. Reality is what stares you in the face everyday.
Truthfulness? Goes hand in hand with it. How can you base a relationship without it?
Monogamy is important, as the first thing. It is a waste to spend any amount of time with someone who is not on the same level as you. If they are not serious, you are wasting your time and sooner or later it is going to hurt. If you have children, between the two of you, how important is it to you to know that your heir is really just that. The product of the pair of you and not someone elses. That is truely theft of the heart and the wallet when it occurs.
Level headedness is a quality you don't appreciate till it is not there. Not just lack of flightyness but stability of emotions. I won't spend my time on this earth with someone who only knows how to raise hell and enjoys it.
Fun? There is nothing wrong with fun; it adds spice to our daily lives. Only, our daily lives are made up of the every day ordinary stuff. I crack a joke and enjoy a good joke or humour where it is found. (Though that isn't all that makes up fun) The reality is when you wake up and look over at your pardner in life, who is just waking up also and realise this is a beautiful lady. (Before the daily morning rituals) When it might be real nice to go make coffee and bring a cup before waking him/her up as a nice suprise. Or waking through the yard, you think of that one who is special and pick a flower to bring in unannounced just because. That is reality, that is the everyday that each of us live within. That is what you have to deal with on a daily basis. Fun comes and goes. Reality is what stares you in the face everyday.
Truthfulness? Goes hand in hand with it. How can you base a relationship without it?
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Ok adam
what i look for in a reationship
Faithfullness, without it i want NO part of the whole thing
Honesty and trust go with the one above
Intellegence, i just can't stand air heads
Integrety, it is inportant to me that my girl be willing to stand up to ANYONE (including to ME, ESPECALLY to me) for what she belives in
Lastly i need a girl who is really atracted to me
that may seem oviouse but i don't know
And i DO want a girl who eventully wants children, because I do
what i look for in a reationship
Faithfullness, without it i want NO part of the whole thing
Honesty and trust go with the one above
Intellegence, i just can't stand air heads
Integrety, it is inportant to me that my girl be willing to stand up to ANYONE (including to ME, ESPECALLY to me) for what she belives in
Lastly i need a girl who is really atracted to me
that may seem oviouse but i don't know
And i DO want a girl who eventully wants children, because I do
You're all conditioned.
Best sex I ever had was with an Indonesian contortionist chick. NO WAY would I want to spend more than a weekend with her though. I actually do prefer a girl with a brain, a will, and integrity.Originally posted by Squid Vicious
You're all conditioned.
Ismu, HOW do you always come up with the right answers?Originally posted by ismu
All, EXCEPT monogamy. polygamy is good: one man, four chicks.