Jenyar said:
I heard the example yesterday of a woman who told our minister how she was cheating on her husband with another man, and how she "earnestly prayed whether God wants her to stay with her husband or divorce Him". He answered that she was not busy with prayer, but with what amounts to blasphemy. If her husband now finds out about her affair and proposes a divorce, she will probably think that God is answering her prayer!
This only as an aside: For some reason it surprises me each time anew how such things can happen -- that someone of a declared religious faith, knowing all the commandments, praying and regularly going to church can cheat on their spouse or commit some other thing that they themselves consider to be a sin.
If you don't consider God worth trusting or obeying, what are you doing asking Him for favours?
Crucial point!
Something one should sort out before one goes and asks something!
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Sarkus said:
Pray all you like, it won't make a bit of difference.
Everything that happens is just a matter of odds.
That's not true.
As I sit here and type this post -- is this a matter of odds?
Well, sub specie aeternitatis, maybe. But if I am to consider my own actions, the things I do to be a matter of odds, then I in effect say that I have no will of my own, and that it is mere coincidence that my fingers hit the keys in a certain order that makes words you can read and understand.
What we do does have an effect on the environment, we do have some control -- to declare everything to be a matter of odds is to declare we have no will. What is unclear and open for discussion is what exactly those effects are, and in what relation they are to eachother, and to us.
You can pray and pray and pray until your hands bleed from being pressed together so tightly - and think that if your prayer is answered that it is from God. But it isn't. It's just you being lucky for once.
This is a statement of faith. You have no proof that a prayer isn't answered by God.
In your example, if you studied only 10% of the syllabus and then prayed, and only that 10% of the syllabus was tested, then this is just being lucky. Nothing more.
I see what you mean, of course. But I have been having this lucky streak for quite some time -- and mostly without prayer. Be it passing an exam with little preparation or avoiding a car from hitting me, in the last moment.
Luck, I could easily say.
But everytime it happens, I get more and more scared -- what if this was the last time? What if the next time I won't get so lucky?
One thing is to think about these lucky coincidences merely as a thought experiment. But something else is facing them on a regular basis. Have you any idea what this feels like?
One begins to depend on one's luck, whether one likes it or not. At the same time, being aware that it was all just luck becomes very hard to bear.
If someone prays they win the lottery, and then do, is this an "act of God"?
No. In the UK it is merely a 1 in 14,000,000 chance.
And every week someone usually wins.
Does that mean God is answering one person's prayer a week?
There is always the issue open of what one can meaningfully pray for.
Statistics.
Beating the odds.
That's what it's about.
Nothing more.
Alright. If you'd get married, or already are married, what will you say or what have you said to your future wife? "I think the statistics are good for us, you have outcompeted all other women by having more luck with me, so let's get married"?
The "Act of God" is merely a person's interpretation of the event/outcome, when you think the odds are so extreme as to be almost impossible. Their interpretation is thus "it must be an Act of God".
But that is because that person doesn't understand probability.
Or they know something about gratitude that those blindly following statistics don't know.
Also, if "Acts of God" really existed, would he only do them for those that prayed?
If so, wouldn't religious people be seen to be "luckier" than non-religious?
I think it depends a lot on what one prays for.