They all want you to believe in "their" way of believing and if you don't , many times, they don't want you around them. I found this to be true in 5 examples that I know of and it is very sad once I was found out that I didn't "believe" the way they did, they actually shunned me. Their problem, not mine but there's the rub. They most all want harmony and preach about toarances but few ever hold up to their own values.