WASHINGTON - An Army sergeant who was wounded in Iraq wants a chance to remain in the military as an openly gay soldier, a desire that's bringing him into conflict with the Pentagon's "don't ask, don't tell" policy.
http://www.military.com/NewsContent/0,13319,FL_gay_040805,00.html?ESRC=army.nl
It's really nothing new, war time or no, we've still got to get rid of our servicemen if we find that they're a bunch of peter-pumpers.
A recent congressional study on the impact of "don't ask, don't tell" said that hundreds of highly skilled troops, including many translators, have left the armed forces because of the rule, at a cost of nearly $200 million, mostly for recruiting and training replacements for 9,500 troops discharged between 1994 and 2003.
Is there any price too high to pay to satisfy the fragile ideals of what manhood and fitness for duty really are held by the frightened and ignorant men in Washington and wearing the brass?
Sgt. Robert Stout, 23, says he has not encountered trouble from fellow soldiers and would like to stay if not for the policy that permits gay men and women to serve only if they keep their sexual orientation a secret.
Even after being hit by shrapnel from a Grenade, Stout is ready and willing to go back into action, and serve country that wouldn't have him; too frightened by the prospect of the fact that different in some ways, though he may be, he's still a human being, and still identifies as a patriotic American willing to put his life on the line for us all. It's quite a shame that neither his willingness nor his ableness, and not even his prior service or proof of dedication to the cause have anything to do with the consideration of his discharge.
Elaine Donnelly, president of the Center for Military Readiness, a conservative advocacy group that opposes gays serving in the military, said a better way to avoid the cost of replacing soldiers who are discharged for being gay is to make it very clear to people who enlist in the military, including Stout, that they are ineligible to serve if they are gay.
"I honor and respect his service to this country, but the fact that he's wounded really doesn't change the underlying fact. ... He is not eligible to serve," Donnelly said, adding that there are many reasons why people aren't eligible to serve. "This is just one of them."
Well I've got to hand it to fellow sciforums poster, Baron Max. It seems that his dog-dumb anti-analysis summation that rules are rules, and are somehow beyond any reach of logic reason or assessment seems to be catching on. I must be getting old; the idea that rules were to serve some sort of purpose seemed to be much more prevalent when I was young.
Mrs. Donnelly's assessment of the situation, as absurdly fatalistic and unthinking, though it may be, causes a little smile to creep across my face each time I read over it. It reminds me of an episode of the Cartoon Network's "Aqua Teen Hunger Force" In which Frylock asks Shake if he finds it at all odd that their friends Meatwad and Carl were washing the car at midnight - Ever dense and dismissive, Shake just shrugs and says "People do things, It's a fact!" and creeps away, satisfied that the situation has been adequately addressed. Though the scene may lose a bit of humor in translation to text, I assure you that the delivery on the show is simply hysterical. Kind of a shame that our country's leadership shares the spirit of message with a talking milk shake, though.
Stout said he suspected while in high school that he was gay but didn't acknowledge it until later. "Then I noticed that it wasn't a phase or anything. This is me," said Stout, who enlisted in the Army after graduating in 2000.
A familiar story, my own discovery of my homosexuality was fairly similar, lots of odd feelings in highschool that I just considered a phase, and gradual acceptance later on. Stout is only a year older than me, if things had gone different I could have been in the same place as he's in now. I was wondering how to pay for college, and my parents and I were thinking that serving in the army might just be a good way to go about it.
Indeed a few of my highschool buddies have been over in Iraq. They've killed, and been shot at, they've come back changed, and seeming a lot older than they were last I saw them. One of my classmates, one year my junior returned from his third tour recently. He went back to my old highschool, which my little sister now attends. He spoke to the students, told 'em what life was like out there. He was treated as an honored guest of the school, hailed as a hero. Just as Stout was, when he was Awarded his Purple Heart.
The discovery, however, of one rather trivial piece of information - simply who he was thinking about back home to keep him going each day, to kill when he had too and stay focussed on his job transformed him from a hero into an exile, and anathema. We honored him, he's ever god-damned kid we think of when we tie those yellow ribbons around our mailboxes, and put the stickers on our cars saying that we support our troops. Now, though all we've got to say to him is "Thanks for the blood, Stout - yours and theirs, now get the hell out of our sight, you make us sick."
I can think of no final words of incense and disgust. I'm going now to seek strong drink, and put on Pink Floyd's "The Final Cut". There are times when I can't bear to admit that this is America.