Less attractive women are a good way to gain access to a social group. They have lower self esteem and 'accept' you easier.
Is this just you or do many men think like this????
To tell them that they're not going to get laid? (or whatever you were refering to with 'hopes')
Hope that a geninue person likes them for who they are and doesn't have an ulterior (is that the right spelling? my head has gone blank )motive, is that too much to ask for? Or Some may want to get laid and have a bit of fun!