To males....
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Every time I show up outside of my house, there are at least two strangers who whistle, yell out hello, or say "niiiiiice" when I can hear it. Those are cleches, most guys find more creative ways to "start a conversation." Sometimes, it's a compliment, sometimes it's harassment, depending on my mood. I usually gaze into horizon, but lately, I started to look around at other people, and I noticed each guy at least gives me a glance.
Is it only NY men who do that? Is it only American men? Does every guy you know do that? Do you do that?
Nobody in their right mind would jump on your neck if you're a stranger on the street, so why do you do it?
If a girl makes eye contact, what do you think? If a girl smiles back, what do you think? If a girl says hi, what does that mean to you? (Well, it doesn't get further than that, 99% of the time) And, if the girl ignores you, do you find it offensive? What do you expect from a decent female after you whistle/comment?
it's not just NY or N.America... here n Sao Paulo it can get pretty disgusting... these hot blooded men...
Thing is, I'm not even average-looking. That means, they whistle at any female human. Not every female, that would be too revealing, they're smart enough to see that. But the selection is random, partly mathematic.
I get these things even from guys that look decent. Well, "niiice" is quieter in their case. But guys on their home lawn do it too!
they're not looking at your face, they're looking at how big your tits and ass are
So I saw a thread "To males" on the main page and was enraged. How dare someone address men in such a derogatory, unintellectual manner. I was about to pop a vein here.
Me?????
Well, after three years of practice, luring desirable guys has become easier, I don't chase anyone. I show interest by staring at them for long periods of time, they understand what I want, and after that it's smooth sailing. I'm practicing whistling, but it's not coming out too well so far.
Me?????
Well, after three years of practice, luring desirable guys has become easier, I don't chase anyone. I show interest by staring at them for long periods of time, they understand what I want, and after that it's smooth sailing. I'm practicing whistling, but it's not coming out too well so far.
The bottomline is about mutuality. It doesn't matter what one looks like if the other ain't interested. Just because an ugly guy can't get any doesn't give him a right to push himself on somebody when they know they are not wanted. They need to look for someone on par to them. Men are just the same and get offended when someone they do not find attractive get pushy.
Why is that worse than looking at your face?
Would you really like it, if some creepy individual ogled at your sexual organs????
I wouldn't care... especially if it's a chick.
After a while i think it would get to you. and i bet you would feel annoyed if 'chicks' you found unattractive, kept on harassing you.
Who said anything about getting pushy? I took his monologue as commentary on the tendency of some women to take it as an insult that you even tried to chat them up. And that behavior that would be perfectly acceptable by a handsome man is completely unacceptable when done by a not so handsome man.
If a woman that I'm not attracted to makes it somewhat obvious that she is to me, I take it as a complement (same as with gay males). But I've had harmless attempts to start conversations with a couple of women over the years that were rebuffed with complete and utter contempt. It was apparently offensive to them that I even entertained the notion that they might be interested in me.
Probably. But I'd never let it come to that. And I make it a habit to play along with chicks like that because they'll probably have more attractive friends.
How?? What are you do gonna disfigure your own face or wear a mask????
Charming
Nope.. you gotta be creative. Assuming telling them to fuck off doesn't work and you don't want to risk starting a fight, just say something really disgusting, that'll get them off your back.
Is there something wrong with that?
Yes, don't you think leading someone on and getting their hopes high in order to gain access to friends who are more attractive , is a bit evil and sly?????
What do you mean with that? That I should pay less attention to their physical looks?
If i'm not mistaken i think he means when your playing with someone's bits,you don't have look at their face.
No, I just interact with them like any other chick. Am I supposed to ignore them or something? To tell them that they're not going to get laid? (or whatever you were refering to with 'hopes') Less attractive women are a good way to gain access to a social group. They have lower self esteem and 'accept' you easier. Call it evil. I call it social engineering. Besides, I've seen how 'evil' women tend to be to men (with already low self esteem) that don't live up to their standards. I used to be one of those...
And face and face expression is very important in finding women attractive. For me at least. But body shape also is. Both have their limits.
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