To males....
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Most girls accept the passive role. I don't. I hate the passive role, I end up with the most boring suckers that way. What I personally want from a guy is for him to show that he's interesting, and then I'll do the rest. WIth most women.... Someone told me that when seducing someone, you should go in small, smooth steps, slowly, and see what the person does.
Back when I was younger, I found it necessary. Now, it's pointless and annoying.
Hmmm.... Well, judging from the way I sound in my posts, how do you think I look?
Mmmm... the number of people should be even. 4.
We all watch. Even when I'm committed, I watch.
hahaha.... /rolls
Running is so usual in New York.... Everyone able does it. Heck, we run All the time! If you're not running in this city, you've better be riding or driving, and if you're standing in one place, you're seriously late for... for something.
Yes, very true. Flirting is really good. But it is annoying when girls keep flirting and flirting and never get any further...spuriousmonkey said:
whitewolf said:Hmmm.... Well, judging from the way I sound in my posts, how do you think I look?
I imagine you as fairly tall, trim but curvaceous, Caucasian - probably dark-haired, with startling eyes and sharp features. You are likely athletically-inclined and radiate vitality. I should think you dress in close-fitting clothes and enjoy drawing men's gazes.
ripleofdeath
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whitewolf
i am wondering about your comment regarding how a man shows you he is interesting in the first place?
do you wait to see some type of demonstration of something ?
do you wait for him to make some witty introduction?
do you see where i am going with this question ?
Rosamajica
unfortunately the more likely reason for the men whistling at you is to show the other men in the group they are hetrosexual and is a show of power in a caveman like manner.
That TLC "scrub" song makes me wanna puke it says if you dont have your own house car and job then dont talk to me ... its reinforcement of women prostituting their attention for money and power status.
Whitwolf , Rosamajica.. remeber this ..
if a man is sucure about his own sexuality then he is not going to wolfe whistle at you
or make some lewd comment.
although there is still a majority of women who feel the need for constant reasurance that they look sexualy attractive to men as they lack self esteem, and self confidence, which is why they relentlessly ask others opinions on how they look, they do not dress the way they like!!!
they dress the way they think others will like them!!!
big difference
we still have a long way to go before women get enough self esteem and confidence to make the first move, and for men to be able to accept the idea also without the man or the other women watching calling the women making the first move a slut.
its all a level of evolution
i am wondering about your comment regarding how a man shows you he is interesting in the first place?
do you wait to see some type of demonstration of something ?
do you wait for him to make some witty introduction?
do you see where i am going with this question ?
Rosamajica
unfortunately the more likely reason for the men whistling at you is to show the other men in the group they are hetrosexual and is a show of power in a caveman like manner.
That TLC "scrub" song makes me wanna puke it says if you dont have your own house car and job then dont talk to me ... its reinforcement of women prostituting their attention for money and power status.
Whitwolf , Rosamajica.. remeber this ..
if a man is sucure about his own sexuality then he is not going to wolfe whistle at you
or make some lewd comment.
although there is still a majority of women who feel the need for constant reasurance that they look sexualy attractive to men as they lack self esteem, and self confidence, which is why they relentlessly ask others opinions on how they look, they do not dress the way they like!!!
they dress the way they think others will like them!!!
big difference
we still have a long way to go before women get enough self esteem and confidence to make the first move, and for men to be able to accept the idea also without the man or the other women watching calling the women making the first move a slut.
its all a level of evolution
If there is no one else around and a guy whistle at a good looking lady, then he might be in a horny status.
If there is another or more people around, then the guy might just want to show off.
Either way, this seems to me that the whistling behavior is like showing respect to beauty in an disrespectful way.
If there is another or more people around, then the guy might just want to show off.
Either way, this seems to me that the whistling behavior is like showing respect to beauty in an disrespectful way.
whitewolf:
Go to Greece. Come back. American men will seem like the suavest, most courteous, most respectful motherfuckers who ever walked the earth.
mickeyboy:
Ta - da!
Of course the behaviour would more or less cease if it wasn't for the "tee-hee, they're looking at me!" responses.
Ignore what you don't like, take an Uzi to what you can't ignore.
Go to Greece. Come back. American men will seem like the suavest, most courteous, most respectful motherfuckers who ever walked the earth.
mickeyboy:
Ta - da!
Of course the behaviour would more or less cease if it wasn't for the "tee-hee, they're looking at me!" responses.
Ignore what you don't like, take an Uzi to what you can't ignore.
Every time I show up outside of my house, there are at least two strangers who whistle, yell out hello, or say "niiiiiice" when I can hear it. Those are cleches, most guys find more creative ways to "start a conversation." Sometimes, it's a compliment, sometimes it's harassment, depending on my mood. I usually gaze into horizon, but lately, I started to look around at other people, and I noticed each guy at least gives me a glance.
Is it only NY men who do that? Is it only American men? Does every guy you know do that? Do you do that?
Nobody in their right mind would jump on your neck if you're a stranger on the street, so why do you do it?
If a girl makes eye contact, what do you think? If a girl smiles back, what do you think? If a girl says hi, what does that mean to you? (Well, it doesn't get further than that, 99% of the time
it means you are reaaaally beautiful.
It's biological, we (including I) enjoy looking at/watch/examine physically attractive women. If you don't like being glanced at, try not to look sexy. The best and easiest thing would be for you to change your clothing, not revealing the shape of your body (its a major part of what men find sexy about a woman, or at least a reason to look at you) if you don't like being looked at.
Well at least you don't get creepy men directing sexual innuendos at you and then start following you when you proceed to walk away.
Those women who rang up and said they LOVE it were likely trashy and suffering from low self esteem. Most women find whistles, cat calls and lewd comments from strange men irritating and annoying. We, or at least most of us, don't like being viewed as pieces of meat. I am past 40 now and so I have become invisible to men. Believe me, it is a relief to be able to walk past construction workers who don't even look up. I no longer have to dodge groups of men while I am out walking or jogging.there was a debate on the radio about wolf whisling the other day and every female who rang up said they LOVE it when a guy whisled at them. that it made them feel flattered and atractive, and that they secretly like it while they sue the pants off the guy for harassment
that says alot about females i think
There is no reason why women should have to dress like frumps just to avoid stupid behavior from men. Just have some basic respect. There is nothing wrong with looking admiringly at an attractive woman or smiling at her- even saying hi in a respectful way. You may be pleasantly surprised. Women don't mind that at all. And don't think that we aren't checking out handsome men who carry themselves well and wear clothing that shows off their manly forms.
In China, I'm the one getting whistled at. Except it's not a whistle, more like an overt stare and constant chatter. A group of girls will come up to me, try their three lines of english, then walk beside me and giggle the entire time, all while telling me how handsome I am (and tall).
Or, more directly, if they know the english; "do you have a girlfriend? no? do you want a girlfriend??"
So after years of leering at girls, it's strange to see how the other half lives.
Or, more directly, if they know the english; "do you have a girlfriend? no? do you want a girlfriend??"
So after years of leering at girls, it's strange to see how the other half lives.
Generalisation: I know a number of grown self-confident women who see "overt signals of interest" as gratifying, but only if the guy falls into the categories of "hot", "cute" or "Whooo!"
QED
That depends entirely the individual, I've seen stuff I wouldn't have believed if I hadn't seen it.. and (presumably, from the result) the guy fitted one or more of the categories given...
While you have my sympathy, I'm sure if a man had half his penis hanging out you couldn't help but to look at it.
It's not stupid behaviour, it is entirely natural. Tell you what, as a test I'll go to work naked tomorrow and see how many women look me in the eye. A woman specifically does all she can to make men look at her and then throws a hissy fit when men look at her.. it's quite bizarre.