Being able to tell the way the normal progression of matter occurs has nothing to do with the time for which it takes for that action to occur. Time is simply the duration of that progression. Leave time out of it, because it has nothing to do with the manner in which matter progresses. Time is simply a measure of the duration of the progression, regardless of the natural order. The natural order of events is irrespective to the measure of time in which those events occurred.
MD, you have made several posts now which illustrate you are not understanding the discussion at hand. No one is denying that if you sat down at noon to watch a 2 hours film but played backwards you'd finish watching it at 2pm, that isn't what is being talked about.
If someone were to show you a film where a pile of glass shards on the floor suddenly recombined into a drinks glass and leapt up onto a table top you'd say "You're playing the film backwards". However, if someone else had filmed the same event but focusing in on a few atoms within the glass you'd be unable to tell which way the film was going, the particles bouncing around don't show behaviour which lets you determine which way the film is being played.
However, if you zoom in to a single atom enough to be able to observe electroweak processes then you
can tell the direction of time because when the film is run backwards you'd see the particles having a preference which runs counter to their usual behaviour. To give a vague analogy, the hands on a clock move clockwise but if you watched a reversed video of a clock you'd see the hands go the opposite direction.
So the complaints you've been making about what people are saying are themselves mistaken, you're not understanding what all the various symmetries involve and what they mean. T is for 'time reversal'. If a system is T symmetric if someone shows you a video of particle processes and you'd unable to tell which way the tape is being played. C is for charge conjugation. If a system is C symmetric then if you watch a video of particle processes then you cannot tell whether you're watching matter or antimatter. P is parity symmetry. A system is P symmetric if when you're shown a video you cannot tell whether someone had done a left-right swap of the video or not. It's known that quantum field theory has CPT symmetry, so if you do all the swaps then the dynamics will be indistinguishable from if you hadn't. It's also known that the electroweak force is CP violating, you can well whether you're watching a flipped video of antimatter compared to a non-flipped video of normal matter. This suggests that T is not a symmetry of the electroweak sector, else you'd have CPT violation due to CP violation.
I know you all sorts of axes to grind and bones to pick with mainstream physic's take on space, time and space-time but at least
try to understand what is being discussed rather than trying to shoehorn in a line of discussion where you can air your grievances about relativity.