There are two different types of relationships:
1.Fruitful
2.Unfruitful
The first one is hard to live, because is allways changing. But it os rewardful.
The second one is much easier... but there are no rewards.
How did I draw this conclusion?
How can you recognize the different types.
Well... When I was going to school today, I started to look at the trees. It's winter here. Some trees are green. But there are some that has no leaves and seem to be dead, but they are not...
Then, I had an inspiration and I got this parable:
The Parable of the Seasons:
There are 4 different seasons. Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter (everyone knows that TruthSeeker... duuhhhh!!!
). I know... but I'm just begining with the essencial.
Well... first we need to understand the cycles and how they relate to life and to relationships (which I'm focusing here).
Spring
Spring relates to reborn. It's the renovation of Nature. The temperature is warm. The once lifeless trees beging to grow up their leaves again. They start to be green, and as they grow, later, they produce fruits. One of the two Seasons of Equilibrium.
Summer
Summer relates to abudance. All trees are green and all Nature is glowing. The temperature is hot. The trees produce fruits. Everything is lifeful. It's joyful. It's fulfilling. One of the two Seasons of Excess.
Fall
Fall relates to maturement. Some trees (the fruitfull ones) start to have their leaves turned into red and yellow. The unfruitfull remains green. The temperature is warm. One of the two Seasons of Equilibrium.
Winter
Winter relates to death. Which is nothing more than change. The fruitfull trees lose all their leaves and seems dead. The unfruitfull remains the same (as usual...). The temperature is cold.
One of the two Seasons of Excess.
Later, the Spring comes and everything begin again.
What this shows is that fruitfull trees, as well as relationships, have changes and cicles. And it is those cicles that produces the fruits! It's those cicles that are rewardfull for them as they prove themselves to be strong.
On the other hand, the unfruitfull trees, as well as relationships, never change. They don't have the cicles, the difficulties, but they never grow, and are unfruitfull.
This shows that relationships that allways change makes you grow! As you have to adapt yourself to the changes, you grow with your difficulties.
How to survive in those relationships?
Simple! Just nurture your roots!
What are your roots?
Simple! Your past. Your good moments together! Only because you are passing through a winter with... let's say... your girlfriend (or ex), this doesn't mean that the Love dies... this only means that it's renewing itself!
If your boyfriend/girlfriend don't believe that the relationship is still alive, show him or her! Show your past together! Then, draw your conclusions! Do you still Love each other? You may be experiencing only a winter...
Strong roots are long lasting trees. Strenght your roots, and it will last for a long time.
What's your kind of relationship with you (ex)boyfriend/(ex)girlfriend? Mine is the fruitfull... and yours...?
Love,
Nelson
1.Fruitful
2.Unfruitful
The first one is hard to live, because is allways changing. But it os rewardful.
The second one is much easier... but there are no rewards.
How did I draw this conclusion?
How can you recognize the different types.
Well... When I was going to school today, I started to look at the trees. It's winter here. Some trees are green. But there are some that has no leaves and seem to be dead, but they are not...
Then, I had an inspiration and I got this parable:
The Parable of the Seasons:
There are 4 different seasons. Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter (everyone knows that TruthSeeker... duuhhhh!!!
). I know... but I'm just begining with the essencial.Well... first we need to understand the cycles and how they relate to life and to relationships (which I'm focusing here).
Spring
Spring relates to reborn. It's the renovation of Nature. The temperature is warm. The once lifeless trees beging to grow up their leaves again. They start to be green, and as they grow, later, they produce fruits. One of the two Seasons of Equilibrium.
Summer
Summer relates to abudance. All trees are green and all Nature is glowing. The temperature is hot. The trees produce fruits. Everything is lifeful. It's joyful. It's fulfilling. One of the two Seasons of Excess.
Fall
Fall relates to maturement. Some trees (the fruitfull ones) start to have their leaves turned into red and yellow. The unfruitfull remains green. The temperature is warm. One of the two Seasons of Equilibrium.
Winter
Winter relates to death. Which is nothing more than change. The fruitfull trees lose all their leaves and seems dead. The unfruitfull remains the same (as usual...
). The temperature is cold.One of the two Seasons of Excess.
Later, the Spring comes and everything begin again.
What this shows is that fruitfull trees, as well as relationships, have changes and cicles. And it is those cicles that produces the fruits! It's those cicles that are rewardfull for them as they prove themselves to be strong.
On the other hand, the unfruitfull trees, as well as relationships, never change. They don't have the cicles, the difficulties, but they never grow, and are unfruitfull.
This shows that relationships that allways change makes you grow! As you have to adapt yourself to the changes, you grow with your difficulties.
How to survive in those relationships?
Simple! Just nurture your roots!
What are your roots?
Simple! Your past. Your good moments together! Only because you are passing through a winter with... let's say... your girlfriend (or ex), this doesn't mean that the Love dies... this only means that it's renewing itself!
If your boyfriend/girlfriend don't believe that the relationship is still alive, show him or her! Show your past together! Then, draw your conclusions! Do you still Love each other? You may be experiencing only a winter...
Strong roots are long lasting trees. Strenght your roots, and it will last for a long time.
What's your kind of relationship with you (ex)boyfriend/(ex)girlfriend? Mine is the fruitfull... and yours...?
Love,
Nelson
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