The Most Destructive Attitude in Romance

Is the attitude described in the OP the most destructive attitude in romance?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 5 20.0%

  • No!

    Votes: 10 40.0%

  • Otter!

    Votes: 10 40.0%
  • Total voters
    25
jibbleton said:
I've had grief from guys on a number of occasions because I've asked a girl out and they've been doing this whole nice guy schtick for years so they're all angry at me just for walking up to a girl I hardly know and asking her if she wants to get a coffee.
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When i was about 20 i got a job at a factory that employed about 3000 people an about 95 % of 'em was females... i loved it... i was like a kid in a candy store :)

1 day in my area a new girl cam to work... an 4 of us guys was lookin at her an talkin about her... an while they was still talkin i walked over an ask her out an she flashed her big smile an said yes... an we dated stedy (fri an sat) for about 3 mounthes... an even tho i had plans of not gettin marryed for at leas 10 years... about 3 mounthes later i marryed a diferent girl who is still my wife... an thats been almos 40 years ago.!!!

Lettin a girl know rite away when i was interested in mor than jus "frindship" worked out grate for me.!!!
 
Well frankly if a guy can't even arouse you, you might as well get a battery operated dildo than endure his gropings. There is a reason for attraction and its not platonic love.
 
S.A.M. said:
Well frankly if a guy can't even arouse you, you might as well get a battery operated dildo than endure his gropings. There is a reason for attraction and its not platonic love.
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But what if someone could give you a list of positive attributes of that person. Wouldn't that make them attractive? LOL
 
Anti-Flag said:
Did you ever have that grandma that you really didn't want to kiss? I know it's normal to kiss your gran, but not with tongues.
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LOL, yeah, they get away with a lot using that "Alzheimer" excuse. "No grandpa this isn't your bed! And put some clothes on" wiley old coots.
 
parmalee said:
The sheer nonsensicality of this thread is simply too irrisistable for me...


@ lixluke:

Consider this scenario (props to CutsieMarie for the original text which I've modified):

You go out with a girl who would be the perfect girlfriend in every way except physically there is nothing there for you. No matter what you tell yourself to try and get over it, you can't. It's like your body overrules your mind. You automatically stiffen up whenever she touches you, you await her kisses with anxiety. Even talking about any type of sexual contact makes your stomach curl up in knots.

What would you do? Or can you not respond, as the sentiments expressed in this hypothetical scenario are unfathomable?
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It's fine to not be attracted by someone. But it appears that 99.9999% of girls are attracted to idiots, and hate nice people. AOTBE.
 
OK I think I've narrowed it down to 90%?
90% are hos who hate those who are interesting and good to others, but like to have sex with lame abusive bastages who are all show. And 10% of girls hate abusive bastages because they see through the lame BS game that the 90% think is so amazing. The 10% like to have sex with guys who are good to others. No?
 
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A bastage is somebody who doesn't care about others. Tends to be full of scheisse. The 90% think they are the greatest thing ever, while the 10% see through the lameness.
 
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lixluke said:
OK I think I've narrowed it down to 90%?
90% are hos who hate those who are interesting and good to others, but like to have sex with lame abusive bastages who are all show. And 10% of girls hate abusive bastages because they see through the lame BS game that the 90% think is so amazing. The 10% like to have sex with guys who are good to others. No?
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No.
 
lixluke said:
OK I think I've narrowed it down to 90%?
90% are hos who hate those who are interesting and good to others, but like to have sex with lame abusive bastages who are all show. And 10% of girls hate abusive bastages because they see through the lame BS game that the 90% think is so amazing. The 10% like to have sex with guys who are good to others. No?
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Sounds scientifical like.

Are they ho's because they like men and want to have sex with them ?

Don't you want to have sex with a real woman ? Does that make you a man ho ?
 
parmalee said:
If you met a man who was quite kind and caring, not unattractive, with whom you shared many interests, all that shit, AND he was more than willing to have sex with you, would you have sex with him? Why or why not. And keep in mind: chemical and biological explanations are simply "rationalization," and are therefore unacceptable.
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I feel like at this point you would both want to be in a relationship. IE there would inevitably be more to it than just sex and denying it would be unsatisfactory bs. So, after hooking up with this guy you will be asking yourself - are we going to get married? And then you have to ask him , and there is only one right answer to this question and it will either seal the deal or end the relationship, or more unsatisfactory bs (with sex).
 
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