Bowser,
Paradigm shifts are always strenuous business.
Tenderize that statement by explaining our new concept of time. I understand it as being a progression of events. ...?
One way to describe time has indeed been as a "progression". However, what's missing in such a description is two concepts: rate and relativity. The rate at which events progress has been shown not to be absolute, but relative. That's the new concept of time.
Since I'm racing at 93,ooo mps and my buddy is burning the waves at 186,ooo mps, the sum of his passing speed should be 279,ooo mps.
Yes and no. The 279,000 figure is computed by a third guy, who is "standing still". Which could never happen anyway, since your buddy would have to be a photon of light to travel that fast (matter can never reach lightspeed without being converted into light.) It does not represent an actual velocity of any single object. To this stationary guy, neither of you can exceed the speed of light.
To you, it looks like the "stationary" guy is racing toward you at 93,000 mps. While your "buddy" the photon is still travelling toward you at 186,000 mps. For your buddy the photon, none of it looks like anything at all, since for a photon time is not defined.
To accommodate this curiosity, I must assume that my experience of "time" has been altered? The passage of events have slowed? Or maybe my ruler is longer? Or maybe both?
See what religion gets you? You are still thinking in absolutes.
(That was a cheap shot, of course. Nobody has an easy time digesting relativity.)
Your experience of time has not been altered, because to be "altered" it must be altered from an absolute point of view. To other observers who are not moving as you are, your time differs from their time (and to you, their time differs from your time in perfect mirror symmetry).
"...that the first observer is contracted along the line of motion, and experiences a slowdown in time."
The contraction doesn't make sense to me. ...
Wellcome to physics.
Actually, I think you misunderstood me. For example, I say that according to Alice (who is "stationary" and is performing the measurement), Bob (who is "moving" relative to Alice) is contracted. That simply means that when Alice measures Bob's length, she finds it shorter than when Bob is not "moving". If Bob was to perform the same measurement on Alice, he would find that it is Alice who "shrank" as compared to when she is not "moving". Similarly Alice will observe that Bob's clock is running slow, while Bob observes that Alice's clock is running slow.
What I question here is the possibility that we can observe reality exhibiting two opposing (contradicting) states at the (forgive the following) same time.
It's a good start -- to question, that is. Too bad your questioning seems only confined to physics...but I digress.
There is no contradiction or opposition. The theory is derived mathematically from its premises, and the argument is flawless. If there were to be a contradiction in the theory's conclusions, then it can only stem from a contradiction in the premises. And the premises are pretty hard to dispute: the principle of equivalence, the constancy of light's velocity in vacuum.
By the way, time dilation and length contraction are real. That is, they have been verified experimentally many times. For example, a precise atomic clock has been flown around the world in a jet, and when compared to an identical clock on the ground it was slow by the amount (within error margins) predicted by general relativity. As another example, in orbital particle accelerators the curvature of the track has to be matched to the curvature "perceived" by a particle travelling at near lightspeed; if it weren't for corrections provided by general relativity, a majority of modern particle accelerators would have never worked.
Now, don't take it as if I was myself convinced that the picture of space and time painted by general relativity is the true representation of what's going on. All I'm accepting is that the <u>model</u> is by far superior to the models we have had before Einstein. And that's the way it is. Life isn't the only thing that evolves, you know (unless we define communicable knowledge as a form of life...)
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