I see your problem and misinterpretation due to the fact, that in essence, you "must" support your self written and self publicised book.
In other words, you are unable to see the forest, because of the trees.
This is obvious in the title you chose for the thread, " The black hole "frozen star" interpretation is the one that's right" which tells me that you will never accept the possibility that you are wrong.
But let me explain in my layman's fashion and what I understand GR to predict and tell us.....
You said...
I think the central point singularity is the fiction. Along with the idea that you can fall through the event horizon or "surface" if that's what you'd rather call it.
What do you understand of the meaning of a Singularity?
I see it as a "physical" region of spacetime, being the smallest volume allowed, at the quantum/Planck level.
I don't see a singularity as Infinite in itself, rather the possibility of certain qualities like density and spacetime curvature possibly leading to infinite quantities.
In other words, any surface of any BH, will most likely be shown to exist here, [the singularity] by any future QGT.
I understand your point, and this is useful for others to appreciate the EH, but my interpretation has no EH so this doesn't apply. The EH is simply a point at the center of this giant mass. If you were located at this EH point with your laser pointer, its light would indeed eventually get out, but it would take a horribly long time. Similarly, all information is preserved and magical gravitational forces no longer need explaining. GR predicts this, while physicists introduce these problems by presuming a fictional event horizon in their analyses.
What you need to appreciate is that the EH is what is commonly accepted as the EH, that is the parameter at which the escape velocity of light is reached.
This just happens to align with the Schwarzchild radius, or the parameters where the density of any mass reaches a stage where further gravitational collapse cannot be stopped, at least up to the point commonly referred to as the Singularity.
Please also note the following...any body/mass, falling towards the EH of a BH is falling at a speed approaching "c"
It will fall through the EH with no undue weirdness or time effects within that FoR.
From an outside FoR, though, time is seen to slow and become Infinitely redshifted so that is is never seen to cross said EH from that outside FoR.
Remember that all FoR's are as valid as each other.
Back to Farsight....You said...
Whatever. But again, you're ducking the issue, which is this: you're standing on the event horizon with a laser pointing vertically upwards. The light doesn't curve round, or slow down, or fall back. Why doesn't the light get out? You have to address this to understand why I'm right.
If one is standing on the EH, which is a rather weird way of putting it, as it infers a surface which doesn't exist. All the EH is, is a parameter in a gravity well, where the escape velocity, and the Schwarzchild radius is reached.
If we interprete your analogy more correctly, we would say anyone about to cross the EH, shining a laser directly away, will see the light/photons from the laser gradually arcing back to fall in with the laser pointer and the body pointing it. That is except that light/photons that is pointed directely radially away.
In that case, that light/photons will be seen to hover forever just above the EH never quite escaping and never getting sucked in.
Likewise If I had a speed of light space ship, and I approached the EH, and then turned and accelerated directly away at "c". my ship would also be seen to hover just above the EH, never quite escaping but never getting sucked in.
see.....
http://casa.colorado.edu/~ajsh/singularity.html#r=1