I'm the GR expert. Really. And it's my thread. So read
the OP, including the essays I linked to about time, the speed of light, and gravity. Try to work out where I say anything that's incorrect, and when you can't, appreciate that there's two interpretations of GR as per
the formation and growth of black holes. One gives you the point singularity, one gives you the frozen star. You will surely pick the latter. After that you ask yourself
why doesn't the light get out? Because it's not moving. The "coordinate" speed of light is zero. There is no other reason. The vertical light beam doesn't curve round or slow down or fall back. That's it.
If you like you can then think about the
gravastar. It isn't quite the same as the frozen-star black hole, but it's pretty close. And note this:
"This region is called a "gravitational vacuum", because it is a void in the fabric of space and time."
The frozen-star black hole also features this "void in the fabric of space and time". So it's
more of a hole than the point-singularity black hole.