Originally posted by LephtShew
Hey,
My sister was recently doing a film documentary on our local psychics, to test whether they give similar stories etc. (so far the psychics have had almost the exact same advice very intriguing) anyways, to get to my question... i've been reading around these forums every so often for the past year or so, and i got the idea to learn how to read tarot cards from this documentary... Does anyone out there know how or have any pointers on how i should learn? (course, books? internet even?)
I would really appreciate it.
(p.s. And is ordering cards off the internet a good idea or should i find a store.)
Thank you very much for any help you can provide me
- LephtShew
Yes, I have devised what I feel to be a foolproof method. The problem lies in the individual nature of what the cards mean and how they appear to different readers. Therefore, I believe the steps to follow are these:
1) Buy a book that explains the basic definition of each card. The cards MUST be memorized. There is no going around this. Obviously you can go straight to the source if using the Rider-Waite deck and read Waite. But his definitions are much too difficult and dense to memorize at first blush. This is my opinion. His book should be read at some point though. But to begin with, I personally like "How to Read the Tarot" by Sylvia Abraham. This book was soundly criticized because it is simplistic. That is exactly why it is so useful in memorizing the cards. It is a starting point and should be used as that. After you have memorized the basic meaning of each and every card and suit you jump to Step two.
2) Learn the Celtic Cross spread. This is the basis for all the other spreads and gives the most detail. If you want to buy a book that has different spreads then do so. But learn the Celtic Cross first. I use three cards for the outcome instead of one, so instead of the ten card Celtic Cross, I use the twelve card, adding the two extra cards at the top to amplify the final answer.
3) Next you must learn to interpret the spread. This is my method - Pick an event in the PAST. Something that is definite and not subject to interpretation. For instance, did you apply for a job and not get it? This would be a good example. Or if you asked someone out on a date and they said, "No." Something along these lines. Then ask the cards what was the outcome of you applying for this particular job. Since you already know what happened, you can see what cards appear to you to describe the interviewer, yourself, and the situation including the outcome. Was the interviewer pleasant with you or slightly condescending? Remember the details and see how the appear. This is where you learn the subtleties and what specific cards mean to YOU! Take my word for it, they will be different for each person.
An example. For me, whenever I get an offer for a permanent job, The Devil card (Number 15) appears along with the Ace of Wands. The Ace of Wands tells me it is a job and The Devil is a private joke since I hate being in bondage and working. The cards do have a sense of humor with me and this is one of the things one needs to learn. So whenever I see those two cards, I start chuckling and think, "OMG, they're going to offer me that job!"
Keep doing PAST readings until you see all the details and UNDERSTAND all the details. Do not pass over not understanding why a card appears. Figure it out. No card appears without a reason. You must first understand the entire spread.
4) Next, do situations in the past that you THINK you know the answer to. In other words, a best friend stopped talking to you and you believe it to be because you asked their boyfriend/girlfriend out, but are not sure. See what the cards say. Or say a couple has been married for 20 years. You "assume" them to be happy, but only know they have been married that long. Do a reading on the outcome of their dating. There should be the marriage card or partnership card showing up, but what are the subtleties that appear? Do the cards show they have been happy? You may have thought so, but maybe the cards differ from that. This is where you begin to feel the power of the cards in letting you glimpse into the truth.
I would also strongly suggest the aspirant use the Rider-Waite deck. It gives the most leeway in describing a situation and therefore gives the most information possible.
ONE VERY IMPORTANT NOTE HERE: The aspirant MUST keep their heart clean in asking a question of the cards. The reader CANNOT have a preconceived notion as you can INFLUENCE the cards in how they appear. I know it sounds crazy, but the tarot cards in and of themselves appear crazy to some. This is a very important subject and one I would like to go into a little more.
In the beginning when I was learning the cards, I went to various readers. Some had an immediate "dislike" or "repulsion" toward me. I noticed how negative their readings were toward me and how inaccurate the messages regarding the future were. Other readers hit the nail on the head. Always, always, always I would feel negativity in my heart with these "inaccurate" readers. From my viewpoint, if I was what they said and things did come to pass I could have cared less about their opinion of me. But when I learned to read the cards, it always bothered me as to what had occurred. It was then I started to experiment.
When alone (I NEVER would experiment with someone who came to me) I would ask a question and then "picture" a card in my head of the outcome I wanted. Invariably this card would appear. Now the thing is that this outcome did not happen. I could just make it appear. The same thing is true when you ask the cards, but hold the answer you "wish" to happen in your mind. You can unfairly influence and direct the cards to give a "false" read. So I would strongly suggest to anyone doing the cards to keep their heart open and free of any prejudice against whoever you are doing a reading for. We all have subjective opinions, but at the moment I ask my question, I release all rational thought and give myself over to a higher intelligence. This is crucial in obtaining an accurate read.
I call it having a "clean heart." I have always tried to do this with all who have asked questions of me and some have been extremely negative and very skeptical, but I have not reciprocated in kind and have remained "clean in heart" as much as possible. I am far from perfect, but this was my goal. Consequently, it would appear that I have been able to answer their questions accurately. I say appear since they told me I did. But again, this is sometimes subjective and have no way of "knowing." Also, by doing this it has helped me in terms of spirituality. For I was quick to judge someone and when I turn myself over to this "higher" intelligence, I see that they "judge" someone on quite another basis. For those that have sinned, they simply do not view harshly at times. Take for instance, this one gentleman I did a reading for. It came out in the first reading that he was cheating on his wife. Believe me when I say he did not volunteer this information to me. Now, personally, I feel this is completely wrong and take a harsh view on men who cheat. But the cards seemed to think he was wonderful except for this "lapse." I saw how they were very adept at taking the entire individual into account and seeing the total picture and not just one part of it. I can't say I'm perfect because of this, but I got the message they were giving me.
I hope this helps you.
Good luck!
NEMESIS