But toss in the full range of religions and what adherents say - rather than the tiny % of mystics - and their final goals seem as disparate as their here and now goals.
I think a person's here and now goals shouldn't be taken as the final answer to what would truly make a person happy.
We can, after all, observe, that one's idea of what happiness is tends to change over time, with some people more and faster, with some less and slower. But it does change.
To take the adherents' here and now goals as the definitive measure of what their religion considers to be the final goal, is saying that anyone who claims to be an adherent is an authoritative representative of their religion, representing it fully, perfectly, finally.
I think to assume such things about just any self-proclaimed member of a religion is not justified, and damaging for oneself.
Although it seems religiously tolerant and respectful to assume just that, it is also a statement of one's own religious/philosophical illiteracy, irresponsibility and laziness, a blind deference. The way I see it, such blind deference is damaging because it binds one into a knot with the presumption that one does not nor could one have the intelligence to intelligently discriminate between the various people who claim to be adherents of a religion, and that one does not nor could one have the intelligence to understand the religion's scriptures properly, at least to some relevant extent.
It's like saying "I'm stupid, I don't know and I can't know, so I better just bow down to everyone and everything and accept them, or reject everyone and everything."
But if we do that, we can't function.
P.S.
I don't mean to be rude. The above is something I have been struggling with myself, for a long time. Looking for a solution.
I still get overwhelmed by people who tell me that I can't possibly understand them or their scriptures, but that they are worthy and that I should worship them and trust them, even though they don't seem right to me, and that I will heap terrible offences on myself if I don't do and believe as they tell me.
The moment one seriously accepts that one is stupid, incompetent, foolish, faulty, irrational, is the moment one becomes disabled from overcoming that stupidity etc.