Often parents have more than one child, and not all the children feel the same way about the parents. The problem may not be the parents, but what is going inside one of the children. In this case, the loss of the parents will not solve the problem. This is called projection, where what is inside is projected outside, so the inner problem appears to be come from the outside so it can become conscious. The movie projector does not change even if you remove the big screen. It will just shine on another wall; spouse.