Your example has nothing to do with the Relativity of Simultaniety.
Your three Sun's are not moving relative to each other. So let's say that it is 2011 on the Earth his looks at both the other Sun's (with a real powerfull telescope) to see their calendars read 1911. However he also nows that each sun is 1 hundred lightyears away and that one hundred years passed on both the Earth and each of the other sun's, meaning that at the moment he looks at the other Sun's it is 2011 at each of those suns also. Thsi wold be the same thing that either of the two suns would see looking at the Earth or each other.
The Relativity of Simultaneity deals with relative motion.
Let's add an observer traveling in a spaceship towards one of the suns at some fraction of c. He passes the Earth at the instant you look at this Sun and see its calendar reading of 1911. He is looking at the Sun too, and since you both see the same light, he also sees that the sun's calendar reads 1911 ( and being right next to the Earth will note that its calendar reads 2011.
But because he has a realtive velocity with respect to the Sun, he will not conclude that 100 years passed for the Sun in the time it took the light to reach him, he will conclude that it took more than 100 years and that it is actually later than 2011 at the Sun during the instant he passes the Earth.
This is the Relativity of Simultaneity. An observer on the Earth will conclude that it the same time/date at Earth and the Sun and the obseerver in the rocket will conclude that it is not.