Canada is the envy of the world . Bill Clinton the horny guy said once " people kill to live in Canada ". That was in his speech of August 2009 .
would you mind citing the source and the context?
Canada is the envy of the world . Bill Clinton the horny guy said once " people kill to live in Canada ". That was in his speech of August 2009 .
It is 100% true John .would you mind citing the source and the context?
It is 100% true John .
I saw it in the news in August 2009 .
CutsieMarie89 said:
Correlation perhaps, but not causation.
This makes sense to me, my Dad spanked me for bad grades and they only got worse. The stress is not good for learning, or a happy family life.
and I don't. I see hitting another person as assault.
I'll hypothesize causation, but I'm not yet sure how to test it:
• Children who are spanked learn to conform through instinct—e.g., fear—while children who are not learn to conform logically, which improves their cognitive skills through practice.
That seems the only justification that spanking would cause such a thing. However, though excessive punishment may cause excessive stress, a few spanks is not excessive punishment. Why do we always concentrate on physical punishment and not other forms?This makes sense to me, my Dad spanked me for bad grades and they only got worse. The stress is not good for learning, or a happy family life.
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I do the same types of things you mentioned, and if you consider that I have spanked her a total of 4 times in her life and haven't had to for 2 years and don't expect to ever again, I don't see that as being abuse.
I guess the spanking part was backing what I said as well.
Get real. And stop these stupid threads about spanking. Spanking is how spanking does.
CutsieMarie89 said:
Edit: even the researcher agrees with me
Shorty 37 said:
I have spanked both my kids only 2 maybe three times in their lives when they were much younger. They learned very quickly that I meant business and there was no need to spank them anymore the point got across very effectively.
Do I consider that abuse, assaulting them ? Not even close!
Which part? I just read through the article again and I'm still not seeing the part that says it can't be the results of operant conditioning and must necessarily be genetic superiority.
My kids are pretty smart but they get their butts spanked when they screw up, I see no correlation.
CutsieMarie89 said:
She said that they couldn't rule out all of the factors that might contribute to a lowered IQ score.Spanking might be one of them, but it might not be either. That's all I meant.
What disciplinary method doesn't involve use of fear to change behavior?
Works for me. Thank you.
Oh, one thing I forgot from earlier:
Well, that same researcher said that "discipline should be an opportunity to teach your child something". She also explained:
"If you spank, you teach your child that hitting is the way to deal with a situation," she said. "But if you use other methods of discipline, you can begin teaching your child higher-level cognitive skills, self-control, cause-and-effect and logical thinking."
(Gordon)
Which brings us back to my hypothesis. I wasn't pulling it out of thin air.
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Notes:
Gordon, Serena. "Spanking May Lower Kids' IQs". Yahoo! News. September 25, 2009. News.Yahoo.com. September 27, 2009. http://news.yahoo.com/s/hsn/20090925/hl_hsn/spankingmaylowerkidsiqs
Which brings us back to my hypothesis. I wasn't pulling it out of thin air.