Recently I hurt Cosmic's feelings because I didn't appreciate enough his trying to help me, because I generally find his help useless.
So here is the eternal question: If someone tries to help you but it is useless, do you still appreciate it?
I guess it could depend on the situation. Let's say you are looking for a place and ask for help from the locals. They by mistake gave you the wrong directions, and since you don't know better, you thank them. (it happened to me) Eventually you will of course figure that they weren't helping you at all, but hey, at least they tried!
To me bad help is worse than no help at all, so I don't thank it. It is my negative feedback to the helper...
I guess we could separate the helps into 2 categories: worthless and outright incorrect. The worthless help just doesn't help you at all, the incorrect one can cause you harm in some way. (bad directions, money losing tips,etc)
Since I've only tried to help you with information I thought would do so I really don't think that your reply is very nice at all. I won't be trying to help out with any of your requests from this point forward so you can not worry about me giving you something that might or might not help. If someone were to try and help me, even if it didn't get me exactly what I needed, I still would appreciate their help not criticize them as you have done. To each their own I guess.
So here is the eternal question: If someone tries to help you but it is useless, do you still appreciate it?
I guess it could depend on the situation. Let's say you are looking for a place and ask for help from the locals. They by mistake gave you the wrong directions, and since you don't know better, you thank them. (it happened to me) Eventually you will of course figure that they weren't helping you at all, but hey, at least they tried!
To me bad help is worse than no help at all, so I don't thank it. It is my negative feedback to the helper...
I guess we could separate the helps into 2 categories: worthless and outright incorrect. The worthless help just doesn't help you at all, the incorrect one can cause you harm in some way. (bad directions, money losing tips,etc)