As we all know, most countries believe that the best way to regulate sexuality is through ages of consent to sexual activities. However, the age varies not only from place to place (from 12 to 21 the last time I checked for adult/minor relations), but also depending what age the 2 partners are. All of this can get incredibly confusing. Making it worse is the fact that most people below the age of consent are taught little if anything concerning the ages of consent in their jurisdiction.
Little wonder, then, that the issue of whether this is the best way to do things so rarely comes up. There is a movement for age of consent reform, as can be seen on wikipedia's "age of consent reform" page:
"While some there actually want to raise the age of consent, there are others who which it to be lowered or abolished and still others believe that believe there should be an "age of protection", wherein "People below this "age of protection" (if totally replacing the age of consent) – or between a lower age of consent and this age of protection – would be subject "to a context in which the onus of proof that valid consent existed would lie with the older partner."
This has some good aspects to it, but it still doesn't deal with what is called "informed consent". I believe that wikipedia once again says something that resonates with me in its "informed consent" article:
"While children may be able to give consent, a more complex question applies in terms of informed consent: whether children are developmentally and otherwise able to give informed consent, in particular to an adult, bearing in mind power relationships, maturity, experience and mental development. For this and other reasons most states have an age of consent under which a child is deemed unable to give consent. As evaluation of maturity, mental maturity, child development, child communication, and child intelligence are further explored, this may be based on psychological and medical evaluation of status for sexual activity instead of chronological age."
So, this is my question to people here: Do you think we will one day move beyond age in regulating sexuality? I'm not a parent, but I personally think it makes much more sense to regulate what a minor can do based on what they know then how many times the earth has revolved around the sun since they were born.
I believe that sex ed in schools could at first work in conjunction with the age of consent, as it does with driver's licenses and eventually replace it, since I believe we should be testing for maturity, not age.
Little wonder, then, that the issue of whether this is the best way to do things so rarely comes up. There is a movement for age of consent reform, as can be seen on wikipedia's "age of consent reform" page:
"While some there actually want to raise the age of consent, there are others who which it to be lowered or abolished and still others believe that believe there should be an "age of protection", wherein "People below this "age of protection" (if totally replacing the age of consent) – or between a lower age of consent and this age of protection – would be subject "to a context in which the onus of proof that valid consent existed would lie with the older partner."
This has some good aspects to it, but it still doesn't deal with what is called "informed consent". I believe that wikipedia once again says something that resonates with me in its "informed consent" article:
"While children may be able to give consent, a more complex question applies in terms of informed consent: whether children are developmentally and otherwise able to give informed consent, in particular to an adult, bearing in mind power relationships, maturity, experience and mental development. For this and other reasons most states have an age of consent under which a child is deemed unable to give consent. As evaluation of maturity, mental maturity, child development, child communication, and child intelligence are further explored, this may be based on psychological and medical evaluation of status for sexual activity instead of chronological age."
So, this is my question to people here: Do you think we will one day move beyond age in regulating sexuality? I'm not a parent, but I personally think it makes much more sense to regulate what a minor can do based on what they know then how many times the earth has revolved around the sun since they were born.
I believe that sex ed in schools could at first work in conjunction with the age of consent, as it does with driver's licenses and eventually replace it, since I believe we should be testing for maturity, not age.