Thoreau
Valued Senior Member
So, here's a question I've been pondering for a while now.
What makes certain sexual acts between two consenting people immoral?
For example, in the U.S., if an 18 year old has sex with a 16 year old, it's considered immoral.
Another example is that, to some, ventures in the sexual realm of bondage, role-playing, and other such "subcultures" are considered immoral.
Now, for the sake of this discussion I'd like to stay away from things topics like homosexuality. I think we all know why some consider it to be immora - most of the arguments of which are based in religion. So, again, let's avoid kicking the dead horse.
And the same applies to myself as well. There are things that simply freak me out and tend to make me respect a person a whole lot less if I find they enjoy things like bondage, S&M, the sexual enjoyment of feces, etc. Now, why that is precisely, I'm not 100% sure. My opinions could be based on many things like how I was raised or something like that.
However, I will say that I'm more lenient when it comes to the age factor... within reason. I find it a little hypocritical that we are so willing to throw an "adult" of 18 years of age in jail for many years for simply performing sexual acts to someone even a year below the legal age of consent. And yet, at the same time, we are more accepting of 18 year olds who become involved with 60+ year olds. To me, it's just mindblowing.
We even punish minors for having sexual relations with other minors.
But this is all just my opinion.
So, in summary, I guess we can break the discussion into aspects:
1) Age
and
2) ...dare I say, "Fetishes".
What do you think about these two subjects? Why do you think that somethings are considered to be socially immoral while others are not?
What makes certain sexual acts between two consenting people immoral?
For example, in the U.S., if an 18 year old has sex with a 16 year old, it's considered immoral.
Another example is that, to some, ventures in the sexual realm of bondage, role-playing, and other such "subcultures" are considered immoral.
Now, for the sake of this discussion I'd like to stay away from things topics like homosexuality. I think we all know why some consider it to be immora - most of the arguments of which are based in religion. So, again, let's avoid kicking the dead horse.
And the same applies to myself as well. There are things that simply freak me out and tend to make me respect a person a whole lot less if I find they enjoy things like bondage, S&M, the sexual enjoyment of feces, etc. Now, why that is precisely, I'm not 100% sure. My opinions could be based on many things like how I was raised or something like that.
However, I will say that I'm more lenient when it comes to the age factor... within reason. I find it a little hypocritical that we are so willing to throw an "adult" of 18 years of age in jail for many years for simply performing sexual acts to someone even a year below the legal age of consent. And yet, at the same time, we are more accepting of 18 year olds who become involved with 60+ year olds. To me, it's just mindblowing.
We even punish minors for having sexual relations with other minors.
But this is all just my opinion.
So, in summary, I guess we can break the discussion into aspects:
1) Age
and
2) ...dare I say, "Fetishes".
What do you think about these two subjects? Why do you think that somethings are considered to be socially immoral while others are not?