nobody is "forceing" heterosexuality on anyone else
If you believe in everything that the heterosexual society tells us, and the heterosexual and homosexual divisions, then yes, there is no forcing. If you can look behind the facade then the story is completly different. No one knows it better than a man from a non-western, non-westernised country (no I don't mean in a racial but cultural way!) who is witnessing a forced westernisation/ heterosexualisation carried on by western media in my country. And we are all watching helplessly. The irony is that the media does it in the name of a 'free and fair society'!
leopold99 said:
what is the purpose of sex buddha?
Purpose of sex is bonding and reproduction. Male-female sex is primarily for reproduction. It is not for bonding. Sex for bonding is primarily between the same sex.
Heterosexuality is about changing this fact --- its about non-procreative/ non-marital/ casual male-female sex, or male-female sex only for its 'fun' or 'bonding' value.
The traditional 'hypocritic' society was far better than the modern 'free and fair society' (as they'd lilke to call themselves!) --- as the former's oppression of humans was restricted to making sure that men and women get married to continue the civilisation. Their restrictions of human sexuality had a purpose.
The heterosexual society too tries to suppress male natural sexual instincts for bonding with other men --- however it does so much more intensely and completely marginalises same-sex behaviour by expelling it from the mainstream into a 'queer' space. The vagaries of heterosexuality don't serve any purpose than to give undue and exploitative powers to a few (based on power inequations created by the traditional society --- but for a purpose!).
For a detailed discussion please refer to:
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Heterosexuality is unnatural.
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Darwin is wrong about sexuality
leopold99 said:
No. and neither am I heterosexual. Nobody is! (O.K. the majority is not!) These are artificial, 'western'/ heterosexual divisions meant to put pressures on 'straight' men to disown their sexual need for men.
It's not about me --- I wouldn't fight so much for me on this discussion forum --- which is hardly relevant for my country. It's about men --- and about humans in general.
In other words, I'm not fighting for 'homosexuals' (which is primarily an identity for feminine gendered males) --- they have a cosy space for themselves. As do real 'heterosexuals'. 'Heterosexuals' and 'homosexuals' have divided this society amongst themselves --- but they are in a minority. I'm fighing for real 'straight' men --- who form the majority of men.
leopold99 said:
if not then how can you speak for them?
I'm not speaking for 'homosexuals'. 'Homosexuality' is marginalised, feminised and denigrated male-male sexual behaviour. That is not how nature has intended things. In nature the majority of (masculine/ straight) men have a sexual need for men. I have witnessed it quite amply during the past 10 years of my work with men in a non-heterosexual society. Many scholars and scientists have also tried to say the same thing in slightly different words. I had initated a discussion on it in a thread titled "95% of men have a sexual need for other men", and had also given some evidences. I was going to present some more when people like Ophiolite and others conspired to merge the thread with several others that I had created to discuss the various social, biological and environmental aspects of society's tampering with male gender and sexuality, into an unmanageable and confused heap (Is Ophiolite a moderator? --- that would explain a lot of things).
leopold99 said:
as for science it attemps to explain our reality.
In this thread we are questioning its capability to do justice to reality --- as proven by its track record --- especially in areas like human behaviour and psychology.