I think James R is doing a fine job. Moderating isn't easy, and they don't pay you anything for it. You can't please all the people all the time.
...are we done with this thread?
James R said:
So, anybody got anything new to bring up, or are we done with this thread?
Is that necesary to determine... wont the thred end of its own accord when people have nuthin to add.???
This community - like most I know - is quarreling and quibbling about a whole range of topics. Neither SAM nor Wanderer - who I've met in other forums - create the q ing. Wanderer went personal often immediately, even without disagreement, telling people they were stupid and focusing on the person, rather than on their positions. It was nearly a rule.Any member who creates this much controversy like wanderer has eventually been banned no matter their intellectual input or popularity. Is it worth it to have a divided community quarreling and quibbling? I don't know but it turns the board into a one tune turntable.
This community - like most I know - is quarreling and quibbling about a whole range of topics. Neither SAM nor Wanderer - who I've met in other forums - create the q ing. Wanderer went personal often immediately, even without disagreement, telling people they were stupid and focusing on the person, rather than on their positions. It was nearly a rule.
Further I find this idea that controversial figures should not be part of communities is a position only taken by people who want that specific person out of the community. It is also an argument that can be used against types of people. These gays are always stirring up controversy. Sometimes controversy is good. It brings out the values of a community. Often it is inevitable, since communities' values are evolving.
We could as easily say we should get rid of people who are never controversial. It is a discussion forum after all; they wouldn't be carrying their weight.
Any member who creates this much controversy like wanderer has eventually been banned no matter their intellectual input or popularity. Is it worth it to have a divided community quarreling and quibbling? I don't know but it turns the board into a one tune turntable.
Then find a truly offensive post, or compile the dozens of them you claim, for your examples, please.
Because until then you don't have much backing for all this.
Again: there's nothing wrong with that post. Nothing. I had forgotten that it wasn't even a quote of her own, which sends the matter into absurdity, but even accepting the troll-pack's presumptions the only problem with that post is the reaction to it.
She said so herself in one thread that she expected to eventually be banned. Why would someone go out of their way to carry on behaviour that they know would lead to a ban?
yes
that is the norm but it appears that james has a vested interest in ensuring [this thread's] demise
here is what i take as a given
james will continue to try, by any means necessary to ban sam
he will hound her incessantly, doing his best to provoke and radicalize sam to the extent that it would be just a matter of time she says something that he can hang her around her neck
it is tried and tested method. if my memory serves me well, i believe spuriousmonkey was the last recipient of james's tender love and care
i mean, look how the guy jaunts in here and nonchalantly asks us if we are done.
i'll tell you what if sam has to go, i want every single one of her detractors to fuck off as well. lets start with james, bells, leibling, lucysnow, the jewish contingent..........
You think SAM's "radicalisation" is my fault, do you? Ha.
If this forum so upsets you, why don't you leave, like you said you would?
Something about hypocrisy, Bells?
Why is it that you, and others, can tell me what you think and feel, but nobody is willing to put a rat's ass worth of effort into telling me or anyone else why? Is it too much effort to explain what is apparently so goddamn obvious?
A bit rich, don't you think? We have gone 25 or so pages in this thread alone with you demanding the very thing you are accusing me and others of.Seriously: What about: "Look at this and see what I see" constitutes a rational argument?
He had made a rational and honest argument. You chose to disagree and ignore it for the most part because in your view, it is easier to stand up for Sam by calling him a liar.As I told James, had he made an honest and rational argument, we could have been done with this a long time ago.
You know, at this point, I really don't care. Your actions on this issue has made me not want to care.Or is it that you don't care?
So now I am illiterate, irresponsible, unreasonable, a liar and a bigot? Anything else?Act like the literate, responsible, and reasonable adult you are. Don't just tell people to "read her posts objectively"; that's just a cheap excuse for not having to explain anything. Understand that not everyone agrees with you. Understand that some people will actually pay attention to what things say, and not sit back in bigoted comfort with no apparent understanding of what is going on.
And I can't believe you are acting like a blind fool over a simple misunderstanding that he apologised for and rectified immediately.You might have lost your patience, but I've lost a lot of respect for you. I can't believe you're actually advocating dishonesty, bigotry, and intellectual sloth.
How far are you going to go?And I think you should keep in mind, in the first place, that James was arguing a manipulated version of the quote and, to the other, that not all of his lies have to do with his deliberate manipulation of S.A.M.'s words.
Which I answered and which you stated you disagreed.Additionally, I asked you a direct question pertaining to your defense of James' action and position a while ago, and you have thus far refused to answer. If I missed something, by all means point it out; but, surveying again your posts in this thread, I don't see an answer.
I am being disrespectful? I have asked you time and again to take a step back from this and look at it again. You have responded by calling me a liar, a bigot, illiterate, irresponsible, unreasonable, amongst other things. And you have the absolute nerve to tell me that I am being irrational and disrespectful? I take it you didn't see yourself as being disrespectful when you responded to Fraggle in that thread in the mod forum, did you? You know what? Fuck you!And if you are going to be so irrational or disrespectful, Bells, that you can't or won't answer the question, why should I care what you have to say?
I did no such thing.Well, let's see: You altered the subject of my statement in order to attack me. And you claimed the rules are being enforced fairly by invoking a unique standard against S.A.M. Neither of those acts represent honesty. Sorry if your ego is bruised, but I've had enough of this hypocritical lip service to the scientific method and all that bullshit when basic explantions are too much to ask.
You think SAM's "radicalisation" is my fault, do you? Ha.
absolutely. to anyone else she would have admitted that you did not clearly say what she inferred from something else you said
but you do not know anything about simple psychology do you.
you forced her obstinacy. you pushed her back against the wall