Thoreau
Valued Senior Member
I heard somewhere that those who are highly religious often exhibit many other traits of mental illness. Is this true?
I ask because I have a friend who was raised highly religious and was himself for many years, though is no longer so. However his behavior is very abnormal. IE: Extreme anger management problems, paranoia, unable to let things go, unable to deal with stress... etc. etc. For example, he and his ex broke up 4 years ago after only 6 months of dating, yet he still cries often over this ex and still misses them greatly, though his ex cheating on him, physically abused him, etc.
Further example: If someone does something he does not like or says something that he does not agree with, instead of kindly and calmly handeling the situation, he insteads yells at them and sometimes gets physically violent.
One last example: He exhibits clear signs of bipolar disorder. His mood, likes and dislikes, will shift DRASTICALLY within minutes, hours or days. In regards to his mood, he sometimes will be extremely happy one seconds, goofing off etc, then the next he is very mellow calm, sometimes angry or sad for no reason. I've asked him if he knows why and he says no. I've noticed that he has acquired new dislikes in various aspects. Not even a month ago, he enjoyed various activities which he now cannot stand. Nothing external caused this shift.
Anyways, I'm sure he needs to see a counselor or something, which he has refused to do, and I can't make him. But I'm wondering if his issues are more than likely caused by his strict religious upbringing and possibly influenced by his still VERY strictly relgious parents.
I ask because I have a friend who was raised highly religious and was himself for many years, though is no longer so. However his behavior is very abnormal. IE: Extreme anger management problems, paranoia, unable to let things go, unable to deal with stress... etc. etc. For example, he and his ex broke up 4 years ago after only 6 months of dating, yet he still cries often over this ex and still misses them greatly, though his ex cheating on him, physically abused him, etc.
Further example: If someone does something he does not like or says something that he does not agree with, instead of kindly and calmly handeling the situation, he insteads yells at them and sometimes gets physically violent.
One last example: He exhibits clear signs of bipolar disorder. His mood, likes and dislikes, will shift DRASTICALLY within minutes, hours or days. In regards to his mood, he sometimes will be extremely happy one seconds, goofing off etc, then the next he is very mellow calm, sometimes angry or sad for no reason. I've asked him if he knows why and he says no. I've noticed that he has acquired new dislikes in various aspects. Not even a month ago, he enjoyed various activities which he now cannot stand. Nothing external caused this shift.
Anyways, I'm sure he needs to see a counselor or something, which he has refused to do, and I can't make him. But I'm wondering if his issues are more than likely caused by his strict religious upbringing and possibly influenced by his still VERY strictly relgious parents.