My husband and I have talked at length about the idea of plural marriage. It came up in another thread, so I decided to discuss it here.
The common misconception is that a woman who would agree to a plural marriage is a lesbian. I am not interested in having sex with other women. I admire other women, and sometimes find them beautiful but not in a sexual way. Just in a mutual respect for their own womanhood, and a desire for female friendship on a very close level.
I work full time, and find myself stretched very thin on a lot of fronts. I am secure in my marriage, and in my own self-image. I am not the jealous type, nor am I the greedy type. I find the idea of a second wife for my husband comforting, and a welcome lifting of a bit of my own "duties". Someone who would help keep my husband sexually satisified, help with the house duties, have a job of her own, be supportive and loving to any and all children in the household. She would have no extra restrictions, other than to stay within the boundries of the marriage as we do. (no swinging or extra-marital affairs) I suppose that if I were the more sexual of my husband and my relationship, it could also be a male and likewise my husband wouldn't be interested in him sexually (neither of us is bisexual) but on a friendship and life-sharing level.
Sharing our lives with a third person, when we both have so much love and affection to share sounds very good to me. I don't see anything wrong with these ideas, and nothing harmful to anyone involved. I am curious to find out what you all think.
The common misconception is that a woman who would agree to a plural marriage is a lesbian. I am not interested in having sex with other women. I admire other women, and sometimes find them beautiful but not in a sexual way. Just in a mutual respect for their own womanhood, and a desire for female friendship on a very close level.
I work full time, and find myself stretched very thin on a lot of fronts. I am secure in my marriage, and in my own self-image. I am not the jealous type, nor am I the greedy type. I find the idea of a second wife for my husband comforting, and a welcome lifting of a bit of my own "duties". Someone who would help keep my husband sexually satisified, help with the house duties, have a job of her own, be supportive and loving to any and all children in the household. She would have no extra restrictions, other than to stay within the boundries of the marriage as we do. (no swinging or extra-marital affairs) I suppose that if I were the more sexual of my husband and my relationship, it could also be a male and likewise my husband wouldn't be interested in him sexually (neither of us is bisexual) but on a friendship and life-sharing level.
Sharing our lives with a third person, when we both have so much love and affection to share sounds very good to me. I don't see anything wrong with these ideas, and nothing harmful to anyone involved. I am curious to find out what you all think.