I asked a psychic this (and had to pay 10 dollars for it)
I'm going to make this rather long even though my question is only a short one. Perhaps it will help you sense something more than just writing the question alone.
My names Sam, I'm 26 now and have never dated anyone. I really have only had 2 woman I was interested in (or that gave me the time of day). 1 of them was Carmen, another was Terrica, both of them never worked out (for various reasons). I never got to go on dates with either of these 2 females, of course that was somewhat depressing for me.
Recently I've seen a new girl I'm attracted to, I managed to get a talk in with her while she was outside smoking (alone). Her name is Jana... now don't ask me why but I really do like this girl, the only thing is she doesn't even say hi or notice I exist. Every time I see her now she'll be outside smoking with her coworkers, that basically makes speaking to her alone impossible!
Part of me wonders, I'm attracted to her, but is there any real reason? Is it because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen? She certainly seems shy and one of her coworkers did say that she was... the problem is I am also shy :-( Oh Dickie I really want to get to know this girl and date her, to see her regularly.. I don't even know if I have anything to offer the poor thing. So what the hell is the point?! I watch her all day long go outside to smoke, she never seems to see me, I just don't get it. If there's no reason I like her then what the hell am I noticing her for anymore... why doesn't it just stop...!
I think either 2 things are going on, 1. I notice her because it's fate and I was meant to 2. I just notice her because I'm a guy... what do you think about that? Pretty depressing...
I've no idea if she has a boyfriend, etc.. I do know that when I look into myself and think hard about this girl (Jana) I sense something, something very strong and spiritual, like I should go after her and stuff. I don't wanna bother this woman though, and honestly with her not even noticing me when I'm so nearby the doorway it kinda gives the impression she could care less.
If I ignore her it makes me feel bad, if I try talking to her I feel I want more, so what's the truth? Am I fooling myself?
The overall thing I'd like to know from you is this... should I seek Jana's affection or let it go because she's uninterested... if so when do I meet a girl that will actually pay attention to me?
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When she replies I'll post it here, then you can all comment on her responce.
I'm going to make this rather long even though my question is only a short one. Perhaps it will help you sense something more than just writing the question alone.
My names Sam, I'm 26 now and have never dated anyone. I really have only had 2 woman I was interested in (or that gave me the time of day). 1 of them was Carmen, another was Terrica, both of them never worked out (for various reasons). I never got to go on dates with either of these 2 females, of course that was somewhat depressing for me.
Recently I've seen a new girl I'm attracted to, I managed to get a talk in with her while she was outside smoking (alone). Her name is Jana... now don't ask me why but I really do like this girl, the only thing is she doesn't even say hi or notice I exist. Every time I see her now she'll be outside smoking with her coworkers, that basically makes speaking to her alone impossible!
Part of me wonders, I'm attracted to her, but is there any real reason? Is it because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen? She certainly seems shy and one of her coworkers did say that she was... the problem is I am also shy :-( Oh Dickie I really want to get to know this girl and date her, to see her regularly.. I don't even know if I have anything to offer the poor thing. So what the hell is the point?! I watch her all day long go outside to smoke, she never seems to see me, I just don't get it. If there's no reason I like her then what the hell am I noticing her for anymore... why doesn't it just stop...!
I think either 2 things are going on, 1. I notice her because it's fate and I was meant to 2. I just notice her because I'm a guy... what do you think about that? Pretty depressing...
I've no idea if she has a boyfriend, etc.. I do know that when I look into myself and think hard about this girl (Jana) I sense something, something very strong and spiritual, like I should go after her and stuff. I don't wanna bother this woman though, and honestly with her not even noticing me when I'm so nearby the doorway it kinda gives the impression she could care less.
If I ignore her it makes me feel bad, if I try talking to her I feel I want more, so what's the truth? Am I fooling myself?
The overall thing I'd like to know from you is this... should I seek Jana's affection or let it go because she's uninterested... if so when do I meet a girl that will actually pay attention to me?
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When she replies I'll post it here, then you can all comment on her responce.