kmguru: "She does not like people dropping bombs on her opinions....who does?...time to give her some slack?"
Absolutely not. Rewarding or excusing intellectual misbehavior has wider negative consequences. We are in the throes of a global war of ideas that will determine nothing less than the fate of humanity. Sandy ascribes to an exceptionalist world view that is under fire from many directions for valid reasons.
Beyond the superficialities of personal attack and labeling, when we have the rare opportunity to penetrate to the core issues, there should no quarter for sick ideology that is perpetuating a cycle of oppression and violence. Robert Kennedy put it like this: "Those who make peaceful change impossible make violent change inevitable." I know of no deep thinkers who have told us that peacemaking must always be comfortable, or that peacemaking must be polite. Hard-nosed discourse becomes an unavoidable part of peaceful change, or the equitable progress of mankind, especially when it comes to breaking intrenched dysfunctional ideology.
If we lack the determination to confront and overcome our sociopolitical pathogens; if we lack the resolve to step on the feelings of the little tyrants residing within us all (not only in Sandy) then the struggle of ideas will continue to be manifested in endless, far more horrific cycles of oppression, terror, and war. Exceptionalism and authoritarianism require elaborate, attractive, and deceptive masks for heartless brutality. Sociopaths have feelings too- But feelings bound up in sick illusions must be attacked with prejudice in the war of ideas, if there is to be any hope of breaking the far more painful cycle of oppression and war.
I fervently hope that Sandy, along with all of us clinging to dysfunctional perversions of the Golden Rule get our self-assured feelings badly hurt, to the point of re-evaluating our world view.