Buffalo Roam
Registered Senior Member
the jump from middle class to upper class isn't easy very few people get the chance your son if he is successful as you think he is will make upper middle class easy. and i am not making excuses hard work alone is not always enough to rise above poverty it is though almost always a to provide from you and your family but we talking about rising up out of poverty. i know what hard work can do my dad started out low as possible and att and managed to get as far as he possibly could without a degree. but the age of working hard rise above poverty is over. sucks but it is true to get a decent job to rise in economic class in this age you need a college or technical degree which the really poor cannot afford to get.
So join the Military, they will pay for it, and you will get a education, but then expect to work your ass off getting some were, physical work isn't the only hard work out their, any job if you do it correctly will be hard work, and getting the job will be hard work, even with a education you will still need to work your ass off, some times 50..60...70 hours a week, just because you don't have to use your mussels doesn't mean the work isn't hard, wait till you do a 16 hour day after a storm rolls through, repairing ATM till after midnight, and come home with a blazing head ache, and have to go out and do the same thing the next day, until all of the ATM are up and running, and tell me that isn't hard work.
Do 550 miles a day driving Truck, meeting a schedule, and tell me that isn't hard work.
Work on a deadline for a Job proposal and tell me that isn't hard work.
Do Insurance sales, having to cold call and set up meets with prospective clients and tell me that isn't hard work.
To get ahead take hard work, and persistence, and a no quit attitude, that is how you get ahead, worry about your own ass, and forget what perceived advantage you think some one else has, even being the Boss's son don't mean that you won't have to work your ass off to get some where.
Most Fathers expect even more form their children that work for them than they do from the regular employees.