Meditation.
There are many types of meditation, but I think I can categorize them into two types. (1) Focusing on something, (2) Quiet mind.
I meditate to relieve stress, and that requires deep relaxation. So anything that requires concentration or focusing will prevent true relaxation.
I took up TM (Transcendental Meditation) in 1977, and became a TM-Sidhi in 1986.
The idea is that if the mind is active then you can’t relax, so the TM technique helps you free your mind of thoughts. Think of those times when you’ve tried to sleep but can’t because your mind is too active. Any form of relaxation is going to be blocked if your mind is filled with thoughts.
You’ve probably heard of illnesses caused by stress and worry, but these are physical conditions caused by mental activities. This should tell you that the mind and the physiology are intricately linked. And it works both ways. If you have ever had a fever then you will likely have experienced hallucinations and strange dreams. Here the physiology is affecting the mind.
Those who exercise regularly usually also feel mentally invigorated and alert as well.
One might say that sleep creates relaxation, and it does to a point, but remember you dream for most of your sleep time and that means your mind is active.
The deepest form of relaxation you can achieve is through meditation where you are able to stop yourself thinking. Sounds easy huh? So try sitting still for 15 minutes without thinking. You’ll fail within a few seconds.
What TM does, after some practice, is to allow your mind to come to rest and stay that way for 20 minutes. The technique requires you to begin with an unrecognizable sound that you can repeat to yourself in the back of your mind. This sound repeated silently and slowly allows your mind to drift downwards and become quiet. But you don’t focus or concentrate on the sound, you simply allow the sound to drift away as well. After a while thoughts will naturally rise up and as soon as you become aware of them you simply return to that quiet and pleasant background sound and sink downwards again.
The background sound, as you’ve probably guessed is known as a mantra, but in TM it is never voiced and each person has their own customized version.
When your mind becomes free of thought both your entire body and mind experience a state of very deep relaxation. In such a state the body’s natural repair mechanisms become significantly more efficient.
When the meditation period is over the body will continue to feel relaxed for some time afterwards. Repeated meditation say twice a day will keep the body and mind in a constant relaxed state and operating at peak efficiencies.
Meditating outside in the open is probably not such a good idea. Distractions from the surroundings and insects do tend to disrupt quality mediation. The best place is indoors sitting in a comfortable armchair in a silent environment. Early mediators will find that once they reach a deep state of meditation they will tend to jump a mile even if a pin drops. One learns fairly quickly that most noises can be easily ignored, one simply allows them to exist and they never cause a distraction, although having quiet music in the background is generally a bad idea. Although I have to admit I can very successfully meditate at unpleasantly loud parties or in airport lounges, or other noisy environments. I do find I can mentally shut out the world whenever I need to.
The cross-legged or lotus position, while a classic position for easterners is not particularly comfortable for most westerners. A comfortable chair is definitely the best position.
However, if you are trying yogic flying then the lotus position is best. Mainly because as you bounce around there is a tendency to come down hard and that is painful on the knees if you are simply cross-legged. But achieving a lotus position takes some practice and requires a significant degree of suppleness.
Yogic flying is an early attempt at levitation in a strange sort of way. Once basic TM has been mastered then it is possible to introduce special thought packets into the quiet state. These are known as sutras. The flying sutra creates a surge of energy that is, well kinda very pleasant. But the energy has to go somewhere so you tend to fly a few inches into the air. After a while you find you can control these effects, but they are best done on the floor on soft mattresses or something similar. And I think at this point you aren’t going to understand much more until you’ve tried it yourself.
Hope that helps.
Cris