Buddha1 said:I really thought this was just another step in the heterosexualisation process --- women using their immense blatant power over men granted by the heterosexual society --- to put pressures on men to quit masturbation, so men are completley dependant on women for sexual gratification.
Till I read the other posts and found out that part of it primarily a religious bias. Part religious part heterosexual power enjoyed by women.
And both are despicable!
God told me that heterosexuality and homosexuality were nothing more than genderism. Interesting huh? It opened my mind a bit.
And ultimately, as I've said already...what we all seek is true love and acceptance, and the intimacy that is supposed to come with it. And God is there to provide, so go for it. Anything less is a lie and a cop out...at best a stepping stone to something more fulfilling.