Suppose I'm standing still on a straight road watching you drive past in your car at 50 km/h. You wind down the window and throw a ball forwards (in the direction the car is travelling) at a speed of 10 km/h from your point of view. Next, you switch on the headlights and a beam of light goes out ahead of your car.
Now, common sense relativity says that if I get out my police radar gun and measure the speed of the ball, its speed will be 50+10=60 km/h. And I'd expect that if I could measure the speed of light from the headlights it would be 50 km/h + 300,000 km/s. Both of these answers are wrong.
For the low-speed ball, the correction turns out to be absolutely tiny, but the correct answer for the ball's speed is actually just a tiny bit less than 60 km/h - something like 59.9999999999 km/h (it's possible to calculate it exactly, but I'm not doing it here).
So you say the car is traveling 50 km/h, and the ball is thrown from the car in such a fashion that the ball is traveling 10 km/h faster than the car is traveling? Fine, but then you change the story and say the ball is actually traveling less than 10 km/h faster than the car??? Are you baiting and switching? Which is it, is the ball traveling 10 km/h faster than the car, or is it traveling less than 10 km/h faster than the car? Which is it? It can't be both. Also, are you now saying the car is traveling slightly less than 50 km/h using the same reasoning as you are that the ball is traveling slightly less than 10 km/h faster than the car??
Say the car is traveling down a road. There is a wall at the end of the road further down the road in the direction the car is traveling, ie, if the car keeps going in the same direction of travel it will hit the wall. The road is marked like a ruler. When the car is 1 km from the wall the ball is thrown from the car and "instantly" accelerates to a constant velocity. Disregarding gravity, how much time does it take the ball to impact the wall? How much time does it take the constant velocity car to impact the wall from the time the ball was thrown?
For the high-speed light from the headlights, the correct measurement of the light's speed is 300,000 km/s - that is, completely unchanged from the speed you in the car would measure. In other words, the light's speed is not at all affected by the speed of the car, and the ball's speed is affected a tiny bit less than common sense would tell you.
These results - especially the one for light - fly completely in the face of common sense. But they are provably true nonetheless.
It's funny you can understand that the light's speed is not at all affected by the speed of the car, but that you can't understand the fact that if the headlights were turned on at the 1 km mark as in my example above, that it would be impossible for you to measure the speed of light to be 299,792,458 m/s relative to the road's 1 km if the road was in motion in space, as the earth is, hence the road is.
The distance the light traveled
along the road from the point on the road the lights were turned on, to the wall, is precisely 1 km. So you would have to say that since the speed of light is always c, and the 1 km distance along the road to the wall is always 1 km, that it always takes light the same exact time to travel to the wall, regardless of the motion of the road in space, ie, the earth is traveling in space. But we know that depending on the motion of the road in space that it takes light a different amount of time to travel the 1 km length of the road, don't we James?
So while the car's motion doesn't affect the speed of light, nor does the road's motion in space affect the speed of light,
the road's motion in space affects the time it takes light to reach the wall, which means you measure the speed of light differently along the road, depending on the motion of the road.
The absolute motion of light is independent of all object's motion. The speed of light is not relative to the road, it is relative to space, absolute space.