Bells
Staff member
Mexico, in a bid to reduce the level of domestic violence have decided to tackle the problem from a different perspective. Domestic violence is purported to result in 75% of the deaths of women in Mexico.
There seems to be something quite unfair in this law. A man might have reason to be jealous and check up on his wife or not want to have sex with her. She could very well be the one who is cheating. Now the wife in this instance could very well have her husband prosecuted as a form of revenge.
As a woman and one who is a strong opponent to domestic violence, I feel very uncomfortable that such a law could be construed as being somehow fair or just. If the actions of the husband (being jealous or indifferent) directily lead to or is somehow tied in to his committing acts of domestic violence against his spouse, then yes, he should face charges for his actions.
But jealousy, infidelity and indifference on their own are reasons for divorce, not criminal prosecution and it should be applied equally.
Interesting thought none the less. It is commendable they are attempting to address the issue, but are they going the right way about it? Should jealousy and indifference against one's wife be a criminal offence? Should it be a crime to simply not love your wife anymore (keeping in mind that this law could very well deem acts such as jealousy, indifference and no longer loving one's wife as a criminal offence)?
Now all well and good if it curbs domestic violence. However what gets me with this law is that it only applies to one party of a marriage. It would appear that women who cheat or deny their husbands sex are not committing a criminal offence.Men who phone their wives every half hour to check up on them, constantly suspect them of infidelity or try to control the way they dress are committing the crime of jealousy, special prosecutor Alicia Elena Perez Duarte told Excelsior newspaper.
Those who stop talking to their wives, avoid sex or try to convince suspicious spouses they are "crazy" even if they are caught red-handed having an affair, are guilty of indifference, she said.
Men found guilty of jealousy or indifference could face up to five years in prison, the newspaper said. Mexico's individual states will determine the punishments, it said.
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There seems to be something quite unfair in this law. A man might have reason to be jealous and check up on his wife or not want to have sex with her. She could very well be the one who is cheating. Now the wife in this instance could very well have her husband prosecuted as a form of revenge.
I don't know, but I think some men might have a right to feel discriminated against. This could be used as a weapon by disgruntled wives who wish to exact revenge on their husbands even if he has done nothing wrong.Ms Perez Duarte said the law would be a weapon that women could employ to level the playing field with abusive men.
"Men ought not to feel discriminated against," she told Excelsior.
Again, this could and should apply both ways.Ms Perez Duarte said indifference, jealousy or lack of love were crimes against women just as much as physical violence.
"Jealousy produces a particular type of stress in the person that comes up against it," she said.
"It is exactly the same. They are wounds, psychological scars identical to physical scars."
As a woman and one who is a strong opponent to domestic violence, I feel very uncomfortable that such a law could be construed as being somehow fair or just. If the actions of the husband (being jealous or indifferent) directily lead to or is somehow tied in to his committing acts of domestic violence against his spouse, then yes, he should face charges for his actions.
But jealousy, infidelity and indifference on their own are reasons for divorce, not criminal prosecution and it should be applied equally.
Interesting thought none the less. It is commendable they are attempting to address the issue, but are they going the right way about it? Should jealousy and indifference against one's wife be a criminal offence? Should it be a crime to simply not love your wife anymore (keeping in mind that this law could very well deem acts such as jealousy, indifference and no longer loving one's wife as a criminal offence)?