Ok, so what exactly is a nerd?
I have a friend who is, ahem... kinda slow. Nice guy. Dresses ackwardly, and comes from an overprotective family.
He is in all of the low streams at school, lacks creativity - yet has an undying enthusiasm for things that don't even matter. Example-- the other day, he got up late, and RAN to school because he did not want to miss a second of typing class! Apparantly, they were starting a new unit. He wont be able to get into uni, or maybe even college. Does that make him a nerd? Or not?
I have another friend,-- very bright, can grasp concepts rather easily, and has good street smarts. He is in low streams too (though not the lowest) and doesn't really care too much about school. He could easily go off to university or college - but doesn't want to pursue that kind of a life. Is he a non-nerd?? Does he deserve to die, -even in the most joking of senses?
I think a lot of people who consider themselves nerds, or that can identify with this kind of a thread are pretentious, or have some kind of a personality disorder. Really, I don't mean to insult anyone, but it's the truth. How you make it in the outside world revolves around your perceptions and what you make of those. I think my second friend is going to do a lot better, simply because he understands this. --And this chicks understand this, too. That's why they like the 'perfect', well rounded guys.
EDIT:: BTW, I can honestly understand this because I was once a pretentious little snot, too. Just like the people I seem to be bashing. It's just not healthy anymore to be that way. I'm aware of that and it's changed for the better.
I have a friend who is, ahem... kinda slow. Nice guy. Dresses ackwardly, and comes from an overprotective family.
He is in all of the low streams at school, lacks creativity - yet has an undying enthusiasm for things that don't even matter. Example-- the other day, he got up late, and RAN to school because he did not want to miss a second of typing class! Apparantly, they were starting a new unit. He wont be able to get into uni, or maybe even college. Does that make him a nerd? Or not?
I have another friend,-- very bright, can grasp concepts rather easily, and has good street smarts. He is in low streams too (though not the lowest) and doesn't really care too much about school. He could easily go off to university or college - but doesn't want to pursue that kind of a life. Is he a non-nerd?? Does he deserve to die, -even in the most joking of senses?
I think a lot of people who consider themselves nerds, or that can identify with this kind of a thread are pretentious, or have some kind of a personality disorder. Really, I don't mean to insult anyone, but it's the truth. How you make it in the outside world revolves around your perceptions and what you make of those. I think my second friend is going to do a lot better, simply because he understands this. --And this chicks understand this, too. That's why they like the 'perfect', well rounded guys.
EDIT:: BTW, I can honestly understand this because I was once a pretentious little snot, too. Just like the people I seem to be bashing. It's just not healthy anymore to be that way. I'm aware of that and it's changed for the better.