Lol, you make a good point. You can refer to QM as mainstream physics if you want, but the consensus within QM is the Copenhagen interpretation, in various forms, as I understand it. I would be the first to agree with you that, to me, the consensus in QM seems to want to keep us from ever believing in local reality. The Hidden Variables group of interpretations allow particles to be thought of as "real", in that they exist when no one is looking at them. My view is that the existence of a "medium of space", and the presence of particles composed of wave energy traversing that medium, is the foundation upon which a hidden variables interpretation can be built.
There are no such things as hidden variables.
When a downconverted photon pair are created, in order for there to be conservation of momentum, they are created with opposite angular momentum.
As they are propagating with opposite polarization, they can determine their partner’s location and momentum based upon their own.
They are not physically or superlumanally connected.
They are entangled as they can determine each other’s state.