I'm not sure you got the gist of what I was saying; for I was comparing pre-modern theologians favorably contrasted to modern PC-ified theologians.
A few introducing remarks:
I'm reading an interesting book,
The Uses of Enchantment: The Meaning and Importance of Fairytales, by Bruno Bettelheim.
He argues that historically, classical fairytales (like Little Red Riding Hood etc., the Grimm tales) have played an important part in a child's development to an adult person, in that a child is early on confronted with the basic problems of life (aging, illness, death, separation) and ways to intuitively deal with them. Bettelheim argues that children are interested in those topics anyway, but that adults often try to deny their reality to them. Further he argues that modern stories for children lack that important metaphysical dimension.
I've also been reading through some popular self-culture (back then, it was "self-culture", not "self-help") books from the 1800's and was very much surprised how openly they speak of metaphysical issues that may arise for a reader of (fictional) literature. Issues that would be quite taboo nowadays, in many places.
The other day, I have also seen a bit from a Turkish soap opera, taking place in modern times. The scene was of a woman singing a lullaby to a child, and the song went "The world is a bottomless well" and sounded rather scary to me. I was struck by the metaphysical implication in this lullaby from a culture that is generally foreign to me. I am certainly not used to hearing any texts for children that would have much depth.
It's actually these recent impressions that I had in mind when I was reading and responding to your comment.
In different times, in different cultures they were/are apparently much more open to the tension between hope and hopelessness - and they seem to be comfortable with it, or at least at peace with it, they don't try to do away with it.
I find the example with the lullaby especially striking: a child learning to think of a vast - and dangerous - world, while at the same time experiencing safety with a parent.
This is definitely an experience I do not have, and I am sure I am not the only one. I do wish I would have it.
I admit that right away, I wasn't so open to your distinction between pre-modern and modern theologians, but contextualizing this difference in reference to some other cultural phenomena as above makes that distinction reasonable.
My experience with modern theologians is that there tends to be a simplistic dictate - "If you aren't blissful, you aren't believing in God, and are an evil person". Let's just say I have been on the losing end of this dictate, and it hasn't been nice, so I have some trouble talking about it.
All in all, it does seem that the earlier theologians might have had a more realistic understanding of the human situation.