Thanks for trying to sort this out. Please consider that ash64449 insists that only proper times can be measured, that coordinate times cannot be measured, and that RoS cannot be measured because it involves coordinate times. So, when you agree with me that the train frame does measure the coordinate times that I calculated, you are saying ash64449 is incorrect, not the other way around.
As far as the term "proper time" is concerned: If the definition is that which you have provided, (that a single inertial clock must be present at both events), then indeed there is no proper time between the lightning strikes in Einstein's thought experiment. I might add here that this would further contradict ash64449's claim that only proper times can ever be measured, because in this case there wouldn't be any proper times. However, if the definition of coordinate time is that which I have provided...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coordinate_time
"In the special case of an inertial observer in special relativity, by convention the coordinate time at an event is the same as the proper time measured by a clock that is at the same location as the event, that is stationary relative to the observer and that has been synchronised to the observer's clock using the Einstein synchronisation convention."
...then it seems to me that my calculated coordinate times $$t'_L$$ and $$t'_R$$ are also "proper times" because clocks on the train which are Einstein synchronized and co-located with the lightning events would measure the times that I calculated. That is, those clocks fulfill the requirements of the above special case. In this context, "proper time" seems to be defined differently than your definition, because it seems to apply to a single event. Actually, the two events in this context are the beginning of the experiment (when the clock was set to zero), and the measurement of the event. In that context, all E-synched clocks display proper times, and perhaps that is why ash64449 insists that only proper times can be measured.
Regardless of whether my times are proper times or not, they are certainly times which can be measured, in direct contradiction to ash64449's claims.