For example, eram's radar-gun experiment from a few pages back would experimentally demonstrate relativity of simultaneity-as-defined-by-Einstein-synchronized-clocks. It is important to keep in mind that eram's experiment (or any other experiment) cannot prove that simultaneity-as-defined-by-Einstein-synchronized-clocks is "true" simultaneity, whatever that would mean. But in contexts where we take the correctness of SR as an initial assumption and want to explore its consequences (like, say, the three threads that came before this one), it is definitely possible to measure RoS.
I have already pointed out the mistakes you have made in the "eram experiment". Correct application of SR demonstrates that the RoS in "eram's experiment" is precisely....zero.