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Cowboy said:
Disliking someone because of his or her sexuality or religion is bigotry.
But thinking someone's religious views silly or their sexual habits immoral is not the same as disliking that person.
Taking the abstraction further, it is about the difference between disdaining conduct or label. I might dislike Joe Bob because he's a self-righetous prig who smells like goat muck and yogurt and just happens to be religious. And perhaps that religion feeds into the conduct I disdain. But how much of that is Joe Bob and how much of it is Christianity?
Christianity, Islam, Wicca, atheism ... the label doesn't matter insofar as anyone can behave poorly. True, certain labels do have observable effects that can be identified according to general trends. It is also true that some trends are more prevalent, and so on.
But in the end, is it really because Joe Bob is a Christian? That is, does it not matter a whit
how he acts? Or is it because Joe Bob happens to be an annoying person, and would he be any less annoying behaving in the same self-righteous manner if he was of a different outlook on religious belief?
I can promise one and all that the (
ahem!) "gay" stereotypes that people find so annoying are no more charming, nor even less
not charming, when such flamboyance is displayed by heterosexual males.
To the broader question our neighbor presents—
"Where do we draw the line in defining the morality of personal values?"—there is a reasonably common answer. The problem, of course, is that to say, "The line is drawn 'twixt theory and practice," is necessarily imprecise according to the transcendent axiom of being easier said than done.
From a psychoanalytical outlook, the morality of personal values is found emanating from the core of the psyche. To genuinely believe something will ultimately affect action according to its real priority as a neurotic function. Thus, one cannot simply hold a personal value that dark skin means lesser animal, for instance, and not expect that sentiment to bleed out in function. It radiates like a toxic aura, affecting every little question one considers, decision one makes, and action one does or does not undertake. That is to say, simply holding an "immoral" belief can be judged as "immoral" because the "immoral" aspect will affect other people regardless of the individual's intentions. But in the same moment, we must also note that the psychoanalytical outlook would be inherently reluctant to make "moral" assessments, and would view the question of "morality" as a question of function and utility. In that case, a discordant belief will affect all human communication one engages, thus empowering the neurotic conflict and lending it to the human experience. It is a degradation of functional efficiency, a dimunition of a variable influence within a behavioral formula. Or, morality aside, it promotes a disruptive effect within a cooperative species.
From a less mechanistic perspective, it's a much stickier question. In what ways do the ideas manifest in the human experience? That is, how much does it come up? And what is the magnitude of the effect?
For instance, let us imagine there is a bourbon I really like, and one day I find out the distiller whose imprimatur is on the label happens to believe that white people are inherently better than nonwhites. Do I continue to drink his whiskey?
One can certainly say, "No, I will not drink his whiskey, because he is a racist." Or one can say, "No, I will not drink his whiskey, because _____", and when we fill in the blank, what goes there? Really, if it's just the proverbial "he happens to believe", and we set aside the psychoanalytic outlook, there is no specific reason to not drink his bourbon. Does it emerge that he doesn't allow black people to work in the distillery? Now there's a problem. Does it emerge that he supports a white supremacist group in Idaho? Now there's a problem. If that belief that "he happens to believe" has observable negative effects on the community, one must begin to weigh the factors and recognize priorities.
Disregarding the psychoanalytic, which is essentially an impotent analysis in terms of morality, anyway, one can certainly devise criteria for resolving such functional questions.