http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/6743303.stm
In a case like this would the guy get any compensation from the government?
In a case like this would the guy get any compensation from the government?
consentualy oral sex with a girl who is 2 years younger than you should be punishable by 10 years in jail?
especially bearing in mind that if he would have just fucked her the sentence would have been less.
when i was seventeen a fifteen year old girl sucked me off,the thought that i could have gone to jail for it is frankly ridiculous.
laws are all well and good but there should still be room for common sense.
like if on kid is 16 years and 1 day old and the other is 15 years and 364 days old,should that be an issue?
The biggest problem with common sense is that it ain't very common! And worse, your common sense is not the same as that of others. So who decides?
Well, there's the ol' common sense. An underage girl having sex with a boy that just turned legal age? But what's the difference in one being a few days under legal age having sex with someone 5 years over legal age? One of 'em we like to think of as "puppy love" or perfectly innocent; yet we call the other one a pedophile and vilify him for life!
Baron Max
a judge.
the difference is maturity, in SOME cases where the guy/girl is 5 years older, they have manipulated a person who is not capable of making rational, informed choices.
...but then again the same thing can be said of people who are drunk,sad etc.
And do you seriously think that the 16-year-old guy wouldn't try to manipulate the girl for sex? Why is the girl not capable of making rational, informed choices with a 25 year old, but suddenly is capable if the guy is only 16?the difference is maturity,in SOME cases where the guy/girl is 5 years older
they have manipulated a person who is not capable of making rational,informed choices.
Wouldn't that make the sex more risky? It sounds like you're making inadvertent arguments to only allow teens to have sex with older people. And besides, it's not as if you actually need to know how to be good at sex in order to pressure someone to have it.but he's just as clueless as she is.
It seems very unlikely to me that a 45 year old is going to be better at manipulating a 16 year old girl than a 16 year old guy who knows the girl, knows her friends, goes to the same parties, school, etc.you have misunderstood me.
what i mean is when people in a couple are near the same age (<17)
they will probably have been exposed to the same kind of information,that neither of them will have that great an advantage over the other.
whereas if you have a 45 year old man and a 16 year old girl,he would be much more manipulative.
im a mysterious and very tired boy.
if i saw two people with downs syndrome having sex i would not think anything of it,if i saw a "normal" man having sex with a girl with downs syndrome i would suspect that he was probably taking advantage of her condition.
sometimes i would be correct sometimes i would be wrong.
so i the case of sex between people of different ages i think clear-cut laws are ridiculous because each situation is different.