James:
I think you need to nail down what great past era you're talking about, exactly.
Any era prior to women's suffrage is fair game for comparisons, wouldn't you agree? Although to be fair, many feminists claim that even today society is still patriarchal.
When was the golden age when patriarchy was great for all men and women?
Throughout history, there have been advantages and disadvantages attached to the male and female gender roles.
“ I've always had the impression that it was the woman who had the greater authority over the children, given that she was the one who raised them and all. A similar attitude is held in Islamic countries (which are what feminists would dub 'patriarchal'), where the mother has a tremendous amount of influence over the children. ”
I've always had the impression that it was a case of "Don't be naughty, Junior, or I'll tell your father when he gets home from work, and then you'll really be in trouble."
Women were responsible for raising the children, and hence their discipline. Women had greater authority over the children.
If you don't have control of the bank account, you don't control the finances.
Simply because the man bought home the paycheck does not mean that the woman didn't have control of the bank account. And even if she didn't, she could still control the finances via proxy (ie. through the man).
Marriage has traditionally been a tool for cementing alliances between families.
That's merely one of marriage's purposes. Marriage has also been a tool used by women to obtain financial security and social standing, which is why they were so keen to marry wealthy and powerful individuals.
The Patriarchs always dictated who their daughters would marry,
Nope.
Love had nothing to do with it;
Nope again.
nor did a woman's choice.
Three strikes, you're out. In some cases, the woman didn't have a choice. But then again, in some cases the husband didn't have a choice.
The difference is: some people had choice while others had their choice restricted.
So men had a choice as to whether they could be the primary caregiver, or the breadwinner? Bullshit. The burden of providing for the family was placed squarely on the shoulders of the man.
Women didn't get the vote anywhere much before 1900. And they couldn't sit in any Parliament, either.
So Queen Elizabeth I didn't have any political power?
Why would a male politician listen to a wife who spend all her time at home with the kids?
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Never been married, have you, James? Well, here's a scenario more relevant to you, which might help you understand. Imagine you are making a major decision that your mother has a personal interest in. Now, imagine you're living with her. And you're sleeping in the same bed. And she's raising your children. How much influence do you think your mother will have on the decision you make?
Women have historically played a huge role in influencing the political decisions of their husbands. That's not speculation or opinion, that's a simple fact.
She hasn't had the opportunity to get a good education
Not true.
or to participate in any political process (forbidden by the patriarchy),
so she knows very little about politics.
Again, not true.
It would be easy to dismiss any opinion she might have on the prudency of going to war.
Not if you have to sleep with her. Unless you like sleeping with penguins, that is.
“ also note that women throughout history have played a very important role in encouraging their men to go to war, whether it was Spartan women telling their husbands and sons to "Either return carrying this shield in victory or carried on the shield in death.", or British womenhanding out 'white feathers of cowardice' to coerce British men to serve in the imperialistic British Army. ”
Who wrote these histories? Men or women?
Relevance? Do you deny that Spartan women told their husbands and sons to "Either return carrying this shield in victory or carried on the shield in death.", and that British women handed out 'white feathers of cowardice' to coerce British men to serve in the imperialistic British Army.”?
The fact of the matter is that in many cases, mothers, daughters and sisters encouraged their menfolk to go to war. So much for women being pacifists!
Women are still "spared" from being given leading roles in the military in many places today. Even if they want them.
Um, how is that relevant to the observation that men, and only men, were required to take up arms and fight in senseless wars?