Huwy said:
I don't care if your not "here" in a counsellor position, the fact is you say you talk to a lot of men, and yet you lash out at people on the internet calling them all manner of insults which supposedly contradict your sensitivities.
I guess, its because I know the world of straight men inside out, and how it operates --- that I can figure out how the traditional heterosexual powerbase is thrown at me to dislodge me and to scare other men off what I'm saying.
It's becasue of what I know about the straight world, that I respond in kind, as a well thought out strategy --- to show exactly how fake the power wielded by these 'vested interest group' is.
If I don't do it, I would be bullied out of the forum!
Huwy said:
So you call people queer, yet you argue that most men have homosexual desires and tendencies?
Queer represents 'negative femininity' (and not masculine male desire for men) and its not wrong to call those who make wrong use of social power that they are not naturally entitled to.
And I've never claimed that most men have homosexual desires! I don't even recognise 'homosexuality' as a valid term.
Huwy said:
You argue that "false" models of masculinity are wrongly imposed upon men in a society, and then call men which you perceive as feminine "queers" or "girlies"??
If you make a list of people I have called those things --- it were those who abused me (or continue to do so!), in order to 'dethrone' me. What I do is what works in the straight world! and it works! I still see nothing wrong with me --- though if you really show me a good reason why I shouldn't do it (from my point of view), and can show me a better way of handling such abuses, I'll take your advice!
Huwy said:
Do you realise how absurd and ironic that is?
Your fighting for the rights of men to be naturally homosexual,
I object. You're misquoting me again. I oppose homosexuality!
Huwy said:
Your fighting for the rights of men to be naturally homosexual,and non-masculine (which i have nothing against - i'm not very masculine myself)
and then you call them queers and girlies?
The non-masculine males who like men are quite powerful within the 'homosexual' space. But, yes, I am speaking for the right of men to be positively feminine.
I only call queers to those who are 'negatively feminine' and who are falsely keeping 'social masculinlity' which the society has given to them by robbing naturally masculine men of it!
Huwy said:
Thats weird man. Its like from time to time you become the bully you so claim to hate.
I think you misunderstand me!
I'm forwarding the cause of natural masculinity which is NOT about bullying.
But in order to survive, fighting all alone in this forum, I need to fight back at those who want to lodge me off from the straight world --- and thus restricting my fight to the 'gay' arena. You are probably not aware of the dynamics under which I am fighting!
But I do appreciate all of what you've said as being sincere. And I welcome any such positive criticism of me --- which in days to come will make me do some insight!