I am an atheist and my girlfriend is a chistian. We have been together about half an year and I care for her alot. We have discussed about our different point of views and we've always understood and never insulted each other in any way. Her boss is also a christian and she told me she have been talking with him about their faith and spiritual things.
Yesterday, after been talking with her boss, she told me that she has a problem with me being an atheist. We were doing so fine and suddenly she brings up this. She told me her "spritual reason" tells me she should leave me. She also told me that I'm the best man she has ever met in her life and that she cares for me as much as before. We discussed about this a long time last night and I couldn't sleep at all. She told me she'll need a few days to think things over before she can tell me her decision whether to leave me or not. She told me she had planned to leave me yesterday, but she couldn't.
I think it's terrible that her faith in something that doesn't exist is breaking us. She's the only thing that would miss me if I'd be gone gone. I feel I can't live without her. The worst thing about this situation is to wait. Everything else feels so unimportant now.
So you tell me. What can I do to keep her? What should I do? I feel I can't live without her. Help me.
Thanks.
Tomi
Yesterday, after been talking with her boss, she told me that she has a problem with me being an atheist. We were doing so fine and suddenly she brings up this. She told me her "spritual reason" tells me she should leave me. She also told me that I'm the best man she has ever met in her life and that she cares for me as much as before. We discussed about this a long time last night and I couldn't sleep at all. She told me she'll need a few days to think things over before she can tell me her decision whether to leave me or not. She told me she had planned to leave me yesterday, but she couldn't.
I think it's terrible that her faith in something that doesn't exist is breaking us. She's the only thing that would miss me if I'd be gone gone. I feel I can't live without her. The worst thing about this situation is to wait. Everything else feels so unimportant now.
So you tell me. What can I do to keep her? What should I do? I feel I can't live without her. Help me.
Thanks.
Tomi