The entire pet adoption system is messed up.
I wouldnt be surprised if this Mutts and Moms is done as a non-profit (though it will probably just get itself a new name and location).
While I can understand a position of an adopting person having an agreement to not give the dog away, I find that to be unrealistic in real world application. Many loved animals end up being given away due to circumstances beyond a persons control, job loss, death, illness, etc. It is reasonable for a family to try to find someone they know to take care of a pet, rather than hand it back to an agency for re-allocation to a stranger. Circumstances can change where the pet may be able to return, or at least, the attached person may still have contact with this pet.
One rule this mutts and moms has that I find abhorant (beyond them taking the pet from what appears to be a satisfactory home) is this:
"Fink said Moms and Mutts has a rule that families with children under 14 are not allowed to adopt small dogs.
"It's for the protection of the dog," he said."
As someone who grew up with dogs. I find their blanket assessment of under 14 to be counter-intuitive to the actual experience of families and pets. We put our last dog down because of illness when the kid at home was 15. We decided not to get another dog for one reason only... Our lives were changed and we didnt have the time to put into the things a pup/young dog needs.
There is no better time to have a pet dog than PRIOR to age 14. This is when kids are playing and exploring yards and doing all kinds of stuff a dog can do too.
It is prior to the age of 14 kids learn the bond with animals and develop empathy and a host of other social skills that are only enhanced by having a dog or cat, or other pet to take care of, to greet you, to play with, etc.
The mutts and moms org would have better served the dogs they place and the public by investigating this family to see if they would qualify for a dog placement (ignoring their small dog and kids under 14 clause) and putting Ellen and her partner on a list of people no longer allowed to adopt from that shelter.
I hope this family finds a lawyer to sue them (mutts and moms) for age discrimination (frivolous or not).