Why would someone chose to stay in a situation of chonic domestic violence.
When PB and I first moved into our house there was a couple across the road in a housing trust house. The first night the first night the women came running over to say her husband was beating her and could we call the cops which of course we did. She sent them away.
Then latter on HE came over to say she had tried to OD so we called the ambos and cops for him and she sent them away
Then she came screaming over when i was in the shower and only PB was around saying he was chasing her with a hammer so we called the cops again
This went on for months culminating with her screaming that "you've done it now, you've stabbed me", we woke up to blood on OUR doorstep. I cant even remember how many times we called the cops for them and every she either ran away by the time they arrived (including when they came lights and sirens because PB told dispatch SHE was scared by them and home alone) or she just sent them away
In the end we had no choice but to call housing trust, who (after giving her ample opportunity to deal with him in exchange for ceasing action) took them both to the tenancy tribunal to have them both thrown out because they were a danger to the whole street, my partner is a youngish female who didn't feel safe in her own home and my Neighbours are elderly
When PB and I first moved into our house there was a couple across the road in a housing trust house. The first night the first night the women came running over to say her husband was beating her and could we call the cops which of course we did. She sent them away.
Then latter on HE came over to say she had tried to OD so we called the ambos and cops for him and she sent them away
Then she came screaming over when i was in the shower and only PB was around saying he was chasing her with a hammer so we called the cops again
This went on for months culminating with her screaming that "you've done it now, you've stabbed me", we woke up to blood on OUR doorstep. I cant even remember how many times we called the cops for them and every she either ran away by the time they arrived (including when they came lights and sirens because PB told dispatch SHE was scared by them and home alone) or she just sent them away
In the end we had no choice but to call housing trust, who (after giving her ample opportunity to deal with him in exchange for ceasing action) took them both to the tenancy tribunal to have them both thrown out because they were a danger to the whole street, my partner is a youngish female who didn't feel safe in her own home and my Neighbours are elderly